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Masseuse sat on penis with possible small cut

Hi Helpline,

Thanks for the work you do.

I was in Russia about 10 weeks ago and had a sexual massage with a sex worker.

During massage, the masseuse sat on my penis (did not wear a condom) and slid up and down 3-4 times (I would assume this is docking) - without any penetration. At the time, I did not think much about it, but having had a small cut to the backside of my penis head a few months before, I am beginning to become a bit worried.

I have not experienced any symptoms. However, I had a few ingrown zits over the past week, which I have never had before and my skin is itching a bit now. Cannot see these as symptoms anywhere, but my paranoia is on full alert.

Looking forward to hearing back, thanks.

Risk level from performing cunnilingus and genital rubbing

Hi,

I have performed cunnilingus only on the woman's clitoris for about 1 minute. There was then a lot of non-insertive genital rubbing (vagina on penis) that lasted about 5 minutes. This exposure happened 6 days ago so I still have a long way to go to the 3-month mark for a conclusive test.

What is my risk of contracting HIV? I am extremely concerned to the point I took time off work and feel sick to the stomach everytime I think back on how careless I was. Thank you so much for reading.

Dried 3 day blood in condom

about a month ago from an online buying/selling application I bough some condoms and they arrived about 3 days later and on the same day I used one of the condoms and ejaculated in the condom. Even though the condoms looked sealed I am still scared that the person I bought it from might have done something to it. what if this person was HIV positive and he put some of his blood or semen into this condoms and packed it and sent it to me. I know this sounds crazy but I am super worried because few days ago I got this dry little rash thing on my penis shaft which looks a lot like eczema and less like a rash but I am still scared. can someone please tell me if its possible for me to get HIV in this scenario? can dried blood that gets in touch with penis urethra give me hiv?

HIV Anal Bodily Fluids Risk

Hi,

The other day, I engaged in protected anal sex with a guy who's status I didn't know. We stopped for a second, and I mindlessly stroked my dick with the condom on. Minutes later, I took off the condom and started jerking my dick for a while. Since I touched the condom with some possible bodily fluids (I didn't see any, but who knows). Due to the possible transmission of bodily fluids, what is my risk of HIV? I'm getting tested, but I was just curious of the risk factor.

Thanks

oral sex without condom

Hi,

i wanted to ask before almost 2 week i received oral sex from a sex worker women with out condom and i finish on her mouth.
I don t know if she have hiv or if she was having any scars in her mouth.
If she have hiv what is the rick to get hiv?
I have some symptoms : stomach pain,sore throat and pain to swallow,and headache,i am under a big stress at the moment.
Can your help in this please.
Thank you

HIV transmission vaginal fluids to skin wound

hi.
from thailand.
sorry not good at English.
Scrotum wound size 2mm. 1 day ago Before risk. The wound began to dry.
i have been with a prostitute her status unknown *about HIV*
vaginal sex with condom no break or fail all went good.
Have a fear contacting vaginal fluid outside of the body.
Am i at any risk of Hiv?

Thank you very much

HIV transmission from penis to skin contact (genitalia-genitalia rubbing)

Thank You so much for helping fellow individuals like myself. You don't know how much of a big change you are causing in other people's lives. My question is very simple and very short, please help me:

So I rubbed my penis with another man's penis ( No exchange of fluids, and I know this is a no risk activity ). Then I rubbed my penis with his arse and area above his hole ( MY PENIS HEAD DID NOT EVEN TOUCH HIS HOLE ). Is there ANY risk of HIV? Can there be HIV on his arse's skin? THERE WAS NO PENETRATION, WHATSOEVER. A week has passed and I see some rash on my chest and have a sore throat ( which are ARS symptoms! ) Do you recommend testing?

Thank You! You guys are my angels

Finger stimulation

I recently gave finger stimulation to a sex worker (who was on her period, which I found out after) about 5 minutes or so after I touched myself, and had a small bleeding wound on my penis. what are the chances of contraction hiv from this scenario. I thank you in advance for you help in this matter. :)

Massage Parlor B2B Rubbing

Hi, i went to a massage parlor and got a b2b massage, i was wearing a disposable underwear and she was completely naked.
At first a precum came out of me from being aroused and i could feel it cause it went through the disposable underwear and then She started rubbing her vagina on my penis ( i still had my disposable underwear on ) and the rubbing went on for about 30 seconds when i asked her to move away and masturbated until i came.
I then checked her vagina and didn't notice any vagina fluids coming from her but i am not sure if during the rubbing she did discharge any although when i touched the underwear after i asked her to move aside i felt no wetness on them.
Also please not that she was kissing me on my lips only no deep kissing and she tried to slide her tongue inside my mouth but i didn't interact with her and moved her away but her tongue did touch my lips.

Please note that 2 weeks ago i also had a massage with the same woman but that time she was wearing her underwear and i was naked and i noticed that she had the menstrual pad under her underwear not sure if she had her periods or not and i was rubbing my naked penis on her underwear and then she asked me to but my penis between her thighs and ejaculate which i did and i came between her thighs. In both incidents there has been no penetration or hand job or oral sex what so ever.

My question are:

1. In both incidents am i at risk of getting infected with hiv through these actions?
2. If the woman was hiv+ and her vagina fluids somehow came in contact with my disposable underwear does it pose a risk of hiv transmission? (Please note that the disposable underwear is not a thick fabric, and i have read on this site that if vaginal fluids come in contact with the penis opening it might be a risk of hiv transmission so i am worried that if any fluids from her vagina was present on the underwear it might have gone through the underwear and into my penis hole).
3. Is it true that once the virus is outside the host ( the woman vagina ) it dies cause it got in contact with the air?
4. And what about the kissing part where she tried to force her tongue in my mouth and i felt her tongue touching my teeth, does this oppose any risk?

I request you to please answer my query with as much detail as possible, please i have a wife and a kids and i am very worried. I promised my self never again to get into such an encounter where i put my self and family at risk.

Appreciating your kind help and apologize for some of the wards used but i wanted to be as specific as possible.

Thanking you in advance.

I Didn't Re-use the Condom, I Masturbated Externally With it

About the REUSING CONDOM post, i didn't reuse it literally, after i penetrating anally an HIV person, i grabbed the condom alongside my penis and masturbate, i didn't think there was a risk, later i realize the condom had rectal fluids. and my penis was cover all over it, that was my concern, if that contact was dangerous or not?

Im really grateful for your time and caring to all of us. Thank you.

Original Post:
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Reusing Condoms
Monday, July 30th
HIV Testing
HIV Transmission
Question:
My penis became in full contact during masturbation with the external side of an anally used condom of an HIV+ person, After the anal coitus, the condom was exposed briefly to the air (less than 10 seconds), before i started to masturbate with it, i kept masturbating and came with the condom around my penis (uncircumsided), without thinking in the risk. can you tell me how real of a risk it was?

Answer:
Hello,

Thank you for your inquiry. From what we gather from the question, you were asking about the risk of contracting HIV from a used condom, assuming the condom was used by someone who is HIV positive. Condoms are not intended for reuse, and will not be as effective in preventing HIV transmission when used incorrectly. [1]

Recommendation: Refer to your physician for follow-up

Regards, AIDS Vancouver Helpline/Online, Dyson

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