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Depressed, Need Help:(

Hello, 15 days ago i made a huge mistake. I engaged in protected sex with an escort. I am absolutely terrified i have HIV.
At the point of penetration i was wearing a condom, however, i needed to take a phone call and then took the condom off, then the escort then put another condom on me so during sex at all times there was a condom present.
I did brefiley perform oral on her which was unprotected, she then performed oral on me which was protected.
I have aniexty issues, for the first week i was okay because i know the condom was in tact, however, over thinking it has made me wonder and obsessive over if there was a break or a small hole in the condom.
I am honestly at breaking point and i need help. I spend weeks googling hiv symptoms and now i have a stuffed nose and a sore throat, i am terrified these are ars symptoms. Please help?

Oral Sex and took HIV Ag/Ab Combo test

Hi, there. I want to ask about my case. I'm man 21 years old. On 7 August, i got a girl blowjob for me without protection . After that, i took the test 3 times at 19th day, 27th day and 79th day after the risk with HIV Ag/Ab Combo test. The results are all negative. So can i conclude that i'm safe and move on ? Thank you

Can HIV be infected through hand-job?

Hello, I'm extremely worried because of what I did in the last 2 weeks. I had sex with a prostitute (first time and only), after I get on the bed, I put my penis inside of her for about 2 minutes (with condom), then I started to feel bad and I don't have the feeling that I want to do it anymore, so the girl offered me if she can do me a hand job. I'm ok with that, she took my condom off and do it. The thing I'm thinking of now is the condom I wore was stick her vaginal fluids, and when she took it off, her fluids probably stick to her hand too, after that she just hold my penis. So my question is:
1) Would I be infected with HIV through the way she did (if the girl is carrying HIV)?
2) I did put my finger inside her vagina too, can I got HIV infected also?

Dont know what to do/ HIV transmitted

Hi there,

Last week I met a woman who is a sex worker. We then went to her place, I had told her that I do not want to have sex. We then proceeded where she took of my pants and started giving me a handjob, I kissed her for all of ten seconds(open mouth)and fingered her for about the same amount of time. She then finished me off with the handjob. I dont know her at all nor her status.

I am really worried? Is there any reason for me to be? Should I have a test done?


Healthcare provider exposure

Recently care was provided to an AIDS+ patient with copious clear secretions being emitted from his tracheostomy stoma. The skin surrounding the stoma was reddened and macerated due to the copious secretions, however no visible blood was noted in the secretions. The provider caring for the patient had a small paper cut/ hangnail Which may have been exposed to the secretions aforementioned. Is this cause for concern for possible hiv transmission?

Ton of Anxiety, Do I Have HIV?

I absolutely worried and scared that I might have HIV, and am afraid that my life is going to end because of it, or the quality of life will be extremely poor.

I've been with my significant other for a while and she's had some partners, and though she says she is clean, she has not been tested. She has had bloodwork done though, so not sure if they check for HIV or lack of immunity.

Can you get HIV from:
1. Mutual masturbation (handjob, fingering, etc)
2. Mammary intercourse (titfucking) - yes, there was contact with semen
3. Deep kissing / french kissing (no blood that I know of)
4. Hickeys / breaking some skin but not enough to bleed profusely
5. Contact with breasts orally (may have been contact with breastmilk)
6. Dry humping

Are there any other STDs I should worry about that could be caused by any of the above? I believe it's possible for skin to skin contact to cause some STDs but I don't know if I should be worried based on the stuff above.

This is my first partner that I've done stuff this extensive with and I'm absolutely terrified of getting a STD of any kind, ESPECIALLY HIV/AIDS as that seems to be the most deadly and not curable.

I don't know if I'm just letting my anxiety getting the best of me or I'm worrying for the right reasons. Please help.

Protected Oral sex dear

dear sir/ madam
1 month ago I had sexual experience with a sex worker.I don't know who is she and weather she is hiv positive.she gave me a hand job without condom and oral sex with condom.I have tinea cruris (fungal infection) around my groin area.can I get infected with hiv through these rashes?.I'm not sure weather her saliva touched those rashes around my groin area.
From 17 days onwards I have symptoms like mild fever, fatigue, swollen groin lymph node,sore throat and i have herd those are the initial symptoms of hiv infection.
I haven't done hiv test yet.So is it important to have a test for hiv?Am I in any risk of transmission of hiv or std?
I an worried about my symptoms and I am in big stress.please help me and reply.(sorry for my English)


I have encountered with a male guy on september 3, 2015, he just put his mouth on my penis n after 4 seconds he take it out, i was not feeling okay so i tell him to stop and he goes,
on september 8, 2015, i tested with comb aids and result was non reactive,
after few days i develop some stomach problem diaheria, so i go for ECLIA(hiv 1 And Hiv 2) On 29th october 2015, The result was non reavtive after 56 days, i have this question do i need to repeat the test im scared to death, im in depression please help, I beg to you, :'(

Unprotected oral sex

hi i am so much tensed because i go to strip club and stripper spit on my penis head called urethra and after 30 sec i cum what are chances for me to be infected like that please reply

Please Help struggling with life

Hi Guys thanks for the great Job you are doing I been reading quiet a lot of the feedback but even though there are some questions related to me and I read all of them I still feel stress and I cant stop thinking about it . Basically about 2 and half month ago I received oral sex from female unknown HIV status I have no idea if she had bleeding gum, sore , mouth ulcer or STI but i am quiet worried i might have contracted something but my biggest fear is HIV as i had mouth ulcer 6 days after the exposure occurred lots of symptoms that is related to HIV but i am not going to mention all of them and i know you guys don't go by symptoms. I really cant stop thinking about it i feel like my life is ruined and i cant stop thinking about it not for 1 min i know it is negligible risk but i feel like i might become the first person or some how i am really unlucky and get it this way. I want to get tested but i am really scared i just dont want to know that i have been diagnosed with the disease. Also i fingered her for quiet a bit and we kissed deep mouth for a while i am really really scared i have got something from her because i feel like there was something in her mouth maybe bleeding gum or something as she was chewing through out the whole time . I stop enjoying everything i use to love and do everyday my grades and college suffered massively i cant concentrate or focus in class i am soo depress and anxiety has made my symptoms worse. Please replay it would be great to hear from you guys


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