I am a male and I had a sexual encounter with a female sex worker 14 weeks ago. We showered together and touched each other's genitals. After shower, I fingered her and played with her nipples and sucked on her nipples. Then she sucked on my penis with a condom on and I came inside the condom. I fingered her some more and touched her breast and tongue kissed her. I then masturbated myself without a condom and came again. That was the end of it. During the 12th week after exposure, I caught a flu. I had nasal congestion and sore throat and had chills for one night. I measured my temperature and I was not considered having a fever. The flu cured after a week or so. My questions are: 1) Can I get HIV from fingering her then touching her nipples with my hands and sucking on the nipples afterwards? 2) Can I get HIV from receiving oral sex with a condom on? 3) Can I get HIV from deep tongue kissing? 4) Internet research tells me normally HIV early symptoms show up 2-6 weeks after exposure. In my case, I experienced a flu 12 weeks after exposure. Is it even possible that this flu is related to HIV? 5) Do you think I should get tested?
i had a protected vaginal sex with a sex worker but i licked her vagina without any protection or barrier and i tested for HIV with 4th generation cmia ag/ab test after 7 weeks and it came back negative. so is this test considered conclusive after 7 weeks of exposure because I'm to much worried
Yesterday, I received oral sex from my gay friend (with HIV positive status), during that I released sperm on his mouth. He has been taking ARV drugs and HIV is below detection threshold. So Is there any HIV risk for me from this action? Will I need a test for this particular situation?
Thanks in advanced for your support!
(Lee from Vietnam)
I am feeling very anxious while intoxicated I got a blowjob from a sex worker. She first gave my back a massage with coconut oil (could the oil be contaminated?) I had small scratches on my back the next day, didn't look like the skin had broke though. After that she gave me a blow job but first put on a condom using her mouth. A trick I have seen before. My questions are below:
- Could I get infected from the massage and scratches? Could the oil if mixed with blood for some reason infect me through my back, through an open scratch or cut?
- When she put the condom on me with her mouth, what if her mouth brushed my penis beforehand? I had the condom on until I released. She was also slobbering quite a bit and I think I felt saliva at the base of my penis, didn't look like blood was in it but could of been trace amounts.
-Last thing I remember was also touching her boobs with my hand. Any risk there? What if she was lactating and I didn't remember. I wasn't black out but I am just trying to cover my bases.
Thank you for helping put my mind at ease. I hate doing these things and the guilt/worry makes it not worth it.
so a few days ago, i hooked up with this one guy. I did give him oral but only had a tiny bit of precum but I cant be sure. Also we did deep throat kiss but im not aware of any sores in my mouth. Also I accidentally licked a pimple he had on his chest. He gave me oral several times. but mainly was a lot of kissing/licking. what is my risk assessment for this? Do you think I need to take an HIV test for it? I'd be very grateful for for any information u have
Hello, Thanks for this awesome service.
I have a quick question regarding my exposure yesterday (the day before this question is being sent).
I met with a guy who said he is married and disease free. we decided to hang out at my place, we had long session of deep kissing and mild lip biting and he ended with giving me a blow job. but today i found out from him that he didn't get tested over a year. So this bothers me a lot now. i didn't notice any bleeding or sores. i didn't had any sores that i remember. but i always thought kissing was safe sex activity until i see some discrepancies now. this case is m4m
please advice if i need to get tested, and when should i get tested. i was going to get tested after 28 days with a blood draw. do you think it will be accurate by that time. thx
hello I stay in India . I had protected vaginal sex not sure of the condom date i had ejaculated inside her and had unprotected oral sex licked sex worker vagina with a lotion this is my only exposure under the bed sheets
i performed hiv p24 antigen and antibodies cmia test at 25 days which was negative
i performed hiv -1 pcr rna qualitative at 25 days which was negative
I performed hiv cmia only antibodies test which was negative
i performed hiv pcr rna quantitative test on 77 days for hiv-1 which was negative.
I performed hiv p24 antigen and antibodies test elisa method at 86 days which was 0.40 non reactive
did westernblot at 92 days which was negative
I experienced body warmness,rashes which persists till today,have blurred vision after washing eyes in the bathroom after sex . Are my test results conclusive.
hiv tridot at 17 weeks negative.
I must say that I'm deeply confused based on what I've been reading here, on your helpline forum.
Regarding oral sex and mouth injuries, 90% of your answers are telling us that superficial cuts as bleeding gums are not deep fresh open cuts/wounds to be considered a transmission ports. The other 10% of the answers are suggesting bleeding gums as a good transmission port in the oral cavity. What to believe?
When I asked my question about performing fellatio, I was suggested to go and get tested since I had a mild bleeding gums inside my mouth.
Bleeding gums need to be deep wounds and actively bleeding, like, gushing blood? What is it about? I really don't understand and I find it extremely confusing.
For HIV to enter the bloodstreem, there have to be deep, fresh gaping wounds - that's what I found out reading, as I mentioned before. But the answer of MY question wasn't like that.
Please explain to me.
All the best.
I had unprotected oral sex licked sex worker vagina with a lotion on august 6th 2018 2 times under closed sheets 4 days ago i had planted three teeth .
i had protected vaginal sex with condom.Ejaculated inside her.I tested for hiv western blot at 92 days it was non reactive. i took p24 at 86 and 105 days the value was rising 0.40 to 0.47. is my result conclusive. can my consider my result as conclusive.
Hi i received a blow job from a tranny with braces. I do not know if she had bleeding gums or open sores. It was dark so i did not notice any blood right after the blow job. But when I got home I noticed minor cuts on the glande and there was a bit of my blood. I am at risk? as far as a understand is her saliva -may be with an open cut in her mouth because of her braces- vs my penis getting cut.