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Oral sex- please help

Dear Team,
Please I need your advise, yesterday I had oral sex with massage worker, she put my sex in her mouth for one or two mins, Also she was using baby oil on my sex while she mastrbiting me with her hands.

Today i have pain on my throat, without any fever or any other symptoms.

I understand the oral sex is low risk, however i still need to hear from your side the chance of getting HIV.

Also, if i need to do full STD checkup, how long do i need to wait to ensure everything is fine?

Thanks

Risky Activity, Pep, Testing

Hi,
I had an experience that is causing me great concern. I received unprotected oral and rubber her vagina on the outside. Did feel the wetness on fingers. May have had a small cut on the underside of the head of the penis. Greatly freaking out. Im especially worried cause I saw something that would make me think she is possibly in acute phase of infection post the unprotected oral. Should I get tested? Should I try and start pep? It is about 60 hours post exposure.

after 9 weeks of un protected oral sex and protected vaginal sex

i had un protected sex with a girl before 9 weeks, i dont know she is hiv positive or negative, i lick her vagina more than 20 min with out a condom and i don't have any bleeding gum or deep wound or mouth ulcer in that time, and also she suck my cock with a condom, then i fuck her several time using a condom, it mean i did a protected sex, after i fuck i visibly check condom was broken or not, as my visual i seen that condom is not broken, please answer me i m in a lot of tension now, after 9 week or with in this time i did not get any fever or any other swallow lymph node, but some time i have little rash and itching my skin, and little bit sore throat, and i had little red spot in my top of the cock before 2 week now it's also not available, i m in so tension now, because of these some time i m became cray, and lot of headache....please help me.....

Fun at the party - is there risk

Hi sorry if my english is bad. I'm typng this after a party I had 2 days ago.
So there were a couple guys in the club and 2 of them went with me to the toilet.
1) one guy gave me a blowjob, so he was the one down and i was the giver
2) i kissed with him afterwards, no cuts on lips
3) we both cummed our cocks, mutual masturbation, the other guy sucked cum of my penis after i finished
I am worried there still is some way i got hiv if they were infected. I dont know them personally.
The thing is I was never a giver only a recipient, is there any risk i got hiv?Thank you.

Risk level from performing cunnilingus and genital rubbing

Hi,

I have performed cunnilingus only on the woman's clitoris for about 1 minute. There was then a lot of non-insertive genital rubbing (vagina on penis) that lasted about 5 minutes. This exposure happened 6 days ago so I still have a long way to go to the 3-month mark for a conclusive test.

What is my risk of contracting HIV? I am extremely concerned to the point I took time off work and feel sick to the stomach everytime I think back on how careless I was. Thank you so much for reading.

I had unprotected oral sex; scared of getting HIV

Hello,
One day ago since this question posted, I sucked a 20 years old gay man's penis for 3-4 seconds and immediately spat since I didn't like it. I am not sure if there was any precum or semen while I sucked but the penis seemed dry before I put it in my mouth and I didn't put his entire penis in my mouth. After that, I kissed that man passionately with tongue.
I met the man on dating app who says he is HIV negative and in past only had protected anal sex with men but has not gone through any HIV tests since he felt he wasn't needed same.
I'm virgin and have no prior sex experience. Now I'm scared of getting HIV virus. Can you please help me? What shall I do? Many thanks in advance.

HIV transmission through receiving oral sex

hi,

before 3 weeks i had received oral sex from a prostitute i don't know if she had hiv,but after this 3 week i have stomach pain,and sore throat.
Can you please help me with that.

how safe is it to have sex if viral load is unknown but taking medicine regularly and indulge in safe sex

hello Dr,

Recently in last week i had a sexual act with a HIV positive person , it was brief encounter which lasted hardly for two min. I had used a condom which i am pretty sure did not slip or break and neither it was a rough sexual intercourse as i had foreplay before indulging in the act , I even ejaculated inside her wearing the condom.

i love this women and had known her since last 15 years but this is the first time i had sex with her. In past i had oral sex where she had perform on me i took the test time but it was negative . I know well that she takes her medicine regularly but she has not taken her viral load test in last 10-11 months . i have told her to take the test in every six months but she gets upset on reminding her about her condition and that i hurt her by making her fill guilty that i might get HIV , i don 't want to lose her at this moment .

My question are.... 1} do i have to worry of the transmission if we are both unaware of the viral load even after performing safe sex .

2} is it safe to have sex with condom even if she does'nt take her viral load test but is on proper medication regularly .

3} do i need to worry and take a test after this recent sexual act.

4} how safe is it wearing a condom and getting into a sexual act in missionary position

I am lost

I am from Bangladesh.Have some stupid mistakes in my life and I Am paying heavily for this Episode. #1 October 29,2014 I had protected vaginal sex With a female csw.I also french kissed Her.Later found the girl HIV +.After 5 weeks I Experienced severe flue type illness.Swollen Lymph nodes under jaw and neck, loose Stool, hedeach,severe muscle and joint Pain,rash on both arm. I have tested after 3 Months with 3rd generation rapid test,after 5 Months with 3rd generation elisa, after 6.5 Months with 3rd generation rapid test.All areNegative. Episode #2 November 17 2015 I Was with a female csw.. We were fully Naked.The girl offered me to have Unprotected sex with her.As far as I can Recall I didn't penetrate the girl but my penis Came close to her vagina.Now my mind says If I penetrated the girl without my knowing Though I didn't feel anything. Episode #3 July 16 2017 I had protected oral and protected Vaginal sex with a female csw.Dont know Why? Vaginal part only lasted 10-15 Seconds.The girl seemed a consistent Condom user.No real symptom aftee 1-4 Weeks. Episode 4 # October 17 2017 I had Protected vaginal sex with a csw.She offered Me to have sex without a condom for extra Charge.But she assured me she gets tested Every month. Now you are thinking what's the Real problemActually Im experiencing the Symptom of overt aids.Lose of appetite,Losing Weight,fatigue, dizziness ,swollen lymph Nodes,loose stool,stomach upset,nailFungus,clubbing nail and slight dementia are Making my life hell. I Don't know what to do? Everybody says I didn't learn from my first mistake.So,I have to face the consequence.I am feeling hopeless.I have nobody whom I can share with the situation. I haven't tested for second third and fourth exposure.

Performing Oral Sex, HIV Risk?

I had unprotected oral sex with a positive man. Mainly he was a receiver, the action was quite intense. Also I did rimming. He ejaculated on the body (not mouth). I noticed a bit of pre-cum on his penis during the action. My gums are not bleeding, I never saw any sores in my mouth or blood while brushing my teeth. I am not aware having any STi (and what if I have?). He claimed that he was on treatment. Please evaluate my risk. Thank you.

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