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Possible HIV infection

I really appreciate the work you guys are doing. I have had a sexual intercourse in Bangladesh where i had Vaginal and oral sex. I had used a condom to limit my risk but i was a little drunk and could not have proper intercourse though i had penetrated her vagina 5 or 6 times.She then used a tissue to remove her vaginal fluids it took her approximately 2 mins and then she performed oral sex after a few mins she had taken the condom off and now she performed oral sex without condom. I am worried i might get HIV through this session i had done 3 Elisa 3rd generation tests one at 2 week after the intercourse one at 22 days and one at 29 days. i have a cold and tonsils inflated also the right part of my neck is stiff and i have had 2 inflated lumps. Please give me a feed back it would be really hepful

Very Worried

Hi, yesterday after I got drunk at a bar,I met a girl of easy virtue and she performed a unprotected oral sex(blowjob) for around 20 seconds .I seriously doubted her health conditions as she looked slightly ill and I am not sure if she had any sores/bleeding inside her mouth .My anxiety started as I had a rise in temperature of my body form two hours after the encounter and still continuing. Please answer my question and thank you very much

Negligible oral sex risk

I received unprotected fellatio from a sex worker. Do you recommend I get tested for HIV?

HIV concerns

last week i had bath and sex with sex worker in intercourse i used condom but after removal of condom i touched the outer part of condom which was wet then i washed my hands but i am not sure i touched my hands to penis in that period after 10 to 15 min we she sucked my penis for 5 min . so can this is possibility of hiv ??? plz suggest me i am very tensed now . can i go for hiv test.

Gum Disease and Experience with HIV+ person

Hi. I seriously need help right now. I was diagnosed with Periodontal disease (Gum Problem) and from that moment i stopped doing Blowjob to someone without condom. However there are times when i kissed a guy but normally its just smooching (without tongue, normally its lip to lip but on a numerous level). I have experience a lot of oral sex wherein i am the insertive partner, if sometimes i do blowjob i make sure they are wearing condom. I never do anal fun (NEVER) because i am very much aware that it has a high risk of acquring the virus. even with condom because i normally get paranoid very easily.

One day i met this guy from gay app. I had a swollen gums at the back of my molar. I kissed him and again without tongue because i know that i have a swollen gums and i dont know if i have cuts in my mouth. He gave me a blowjob without protection and he just jerked off until finish. I just suck his nipples to also help him cum faster. After awhile he admitted he is HIV positive. And now im slowly dying with fear and anxiety, i couldnt sleep or eat. please help me i need giudance.

1. Do i need testing with this incident?
2. With so many insertive oral sex that i did, did i put my self on risk?
3. Could i get infected with if we only did smooching without tongue? Could my gum disease be a factor even if its just lip to lip on a numerous level?

Please help me.....

made a mistake with a weird guy

Hi. today i met with a guy i met on online. He told me to stop by his house.
i went to his place. he started touching my penis. it was awkward because he was in a such a rush.
we went upstair to his room and he started to massage my dick, all of the sudden he told me to fuck him.
i said i do not do that. he insisted and sat down on my dick , of course i was wearing a condom.

then we tryied different position but i did not feel my dick never entered because i was little bit limp or flassid
due to the frustration of having a hard time to stick it in to his butt.

he sucked me with condom, i also sucked him with a condom
but he never finished. and i finished myself with the condom on

do i have to go and get tested for HIV?
i am just concerned about it , because he later texted me asking if i have poppers
so, i knew right there that he is not reliable, and maybe do others drugs
do you think i put myself at risk.?

i brought the condom to my house, and tested it, filled with tub water in the bathroom and it was perfectly intact no damage on it. do you think i have to go and get tested?

Clinic Called.

Hi there, so i received a call yesterday telling me that i have 'Been exposed to HIV and Chlamydia' from a clinic in Vancouver. I immediately arranged to go and get tested. When there, they did full spectrum tests including, i assume an RNA test (10-12 days window was given for that test) and a pinprick test. I also took medication for the Chlamydia

Now, because i limit my sexual contact to purely oral sex out of a relationship, I assumed my risk was low to very low to contract HIV from oral alone? Could you clarify the level of risk on that front for me given that
A. it's obvious the person involved has been recently diagnosed, and thereby likely to have a higher viral load (?)
B. they also tested positive for chlamydia, which i understand increases your likelihood to catch another STD, but does it also increase your infectiveness?

I have OCD so this situation creates a great deal of anxiety in me. Im trying my best to manage it and be calm. Just to clarify, my pinprick result from yesterday was negative, i have had no unprotected anal sex or even protected anal sex since my last tests which were window-period proof, and i have ONLY performed oral on maybe 3-4 guys, and received oral from a few more

There is one evening in the club i blacked out for 20 minutes and was thrown out for being too drunk - something that I actually stopped drinking over, but i am extremely doubtful that would have lead to sex inside a club, and i would have known about it, as there would have been someone else ejected with me for such an act.

Risk of Having HIV on being rubbed by someone penis on my anus.

I have anal a month before with my friend. He tends to insert his penis in my anal but never inserted. He only rubbed his penis on my opening of anal. Is there any chance of getting infected of HIV

Open Wounds in Mouth and HIV

I recently had unprotected oral sex with a man. He did not ejaculate in my mouth and only about a tablespoon of precum entered my mouth. I only rinsed with mouthwash beforehand and did not floss before or after I had sex with him. Furthermore, I only brushed my teeth lightly with no blood after sex. I did not see any open sores or boils on his penis. When it is said that 'open wounds' or 'sores' increase the chances of HIV, does that mean chapped lips and gingivitis, or something more along the lines of a deep cut or incision from wisdom tooth extraction? All in all, how at risk am I from HIV?

Does contact with vaginal fluid transmit HIV?

I had visited a Strip club last week in NYC. I had a private dance with a lady. I fingered here for a while and then she licked my fingers after that. I kissed here after this.

I am afraid if this will transmit HIV (if the lady was HIV positive). Is there a risk that you see in this?
Kindly help me.


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