The perfect storm: Unprotected receiving, HSV, and confessed HIV+ encounter. Anxiety to say the least and begging for help.
Instead of a long, self-sorrow oriented message, I'll simply state the facts and ask for your opinion. Thank you ahead of time for both your time and effort - and please know, your thoughts are greatly appreciated.
I'm bi and didn't have a bi experience for a LONG time - until 8 days ago. I ended-up at a guy's house I met, naked on his bed, and in the throws of passion, made what amounts to the biggest, irresponsible, selfish mistake of my entire life.
I asked several times before we engaged in sexual activity - "No, I'm HIV negative". We exchanged oral, he was inside of me for about 2-3 minutes (unprotected but not rough) and did not ejaculate inside of me. However, he had a fair amount of precum during oral and I'll assume as much when he entered me anally. We finished by masturbating on each other. I showered and left - mad at myself already but had no idea what was coming my way the following day.
The next morning, I received a message from him: "Hey, I know you asked many times about my HIV status and I know you left really concerned about our activities. So, I got you a bottle of Truvada just to ease your mind". I knew what he was saying but afraid to say. I called him immediately and asked again - and again he stated he was HIV negative. But after informing him of the legal consequences of not informing me if he was in fact HIV positive, he eventually admitted to being just that, HIV positive.
The world stopped and went dim.
1 - HIV negative (me) as of 5/2012 and no exposure risks within 6 months prior or afterwards.2 - HSV2 positive. Acyclovir for outbreaks. Last outbreak was about a week prior to the above encounter. The two sores were healed before above encounter.3 - The guy I had the encounter with stated he was diagnosed in 1999 and has been compliant with meds and undetectable since 2001. His last labs: March 2012 - CD4 383, viral load undetectable. States no known comorbidities (STI's or otherwise).4 - I started Truvada 18 hours after exposure and have taken my 8th dose today. I have taken the doses within a 2-hour window of the initial dosing time and have not missed a day. I also have a full 28 day supply.5 - Today, I experienced a prodromal HSV symptom.
1. Given the above scenario/facts, how would you rate my level of acquiring HIV? Unprotected sex, me being the receptive partner, precum, me having HSV - all increase my risk; partner being undetectable, med compliant, no other comorbidities, he did not ejaculate inside of me - all decrease my risk. But my brain is weighted with anxiety, stress, and confusion. . .having someone else spell it out for me is really, to be blunt, exactly what I need to gain just a little clarity/sanity.
2. With the prodromal symptom occurring today, I want to take my normal Acyclovir dose. Should I take Acyclovir with Truvada? My renal/liver functions are all WNL - my main concern revolves around Acyclovir decreasing the efficacy of Truvada?
3. Is Truvada the best/only med I should be on at the moment?
Again, thank you so much. I don't know if any of you have been in this position before - but simply having someone to ask questions to is a heart saving service you guys provide.
Hi I was put on PEP for receiving a handjob from an HIV+ female, there was no cuts on my penis or her hands. I also licked her nipples for less than 3 seconds and she was not lactating. I went for a 4th generation test at 28 days and it was negative, can I move on with my life?
Dont ask how, but I came into contact with the liquid that is used to perform a Clearview Hiv 1 & 2 HIV test. Is there live virus in these tests that is capable of infecting? I cannot tell from the website, but it seems to suggest that there is immobilized antigen. Please help asap, I am deciding if i need pep
I need your help in letting me know the chance of me getting hiv from the following scenario.
3 days ago, i had protected sex with a women of unknown hiv status. we had vaginal sex. After that, she gave me a blow job with the condom on. We then changed condoms. She placed the new condom on me with her hands full of vaginal flued. I am afraid that some of her vaginal flued came on the inside of the condom while she placed it. After she placed it, we had vaginal sex again. We replaced the condom 3 times in the same manner.
Should i get pep medication ?
Kindly let me know the chances of hiv infection under the above scenario....i am really scared. I need your help. thanks a lot.
I started using PEP after 38 hours of possible exposure.it is 2 days thai I have finished PEP.But I am confused about PCR test.I want to use DNA and RNA PCR test 4 weeks after finishing PEP(2 month from exposure).are the test results conclusive?
Hello-thanks for such a great site
how reliable is PCR after finishing PEP?
Dear volunteers, thanks for having a look at my question as its causing me a bit of grief.
I went for a manicure - the technician sprayed the tools (cuticle cutter etc) with a disinfectant but it was very quick quick and I dont know if it was adequate to kill any HIV that may have been left on it. The woman before me would have had the tools used on her about 10 minutes prior. The technician cut my finger and made me bleed during the manicure. If the woman before me had also been cut and bled on the tools and I was then cut, would hiv be able to be transmitted? Also - the salon technician touched my finger wound - she did not appear to be bleeding. Would transmission happen like this?
Do I need PEP???? This happened today
Hi! I had a massage at an adult entertainment outlet. I was naked. As it was an erotic massage I kissed the lady with an open mouth a few times. i was excited and she relieved me with a hand job. I remember she used her saliva when doing the hand job on my penis. I realized and did not have any sexual activity -vaginal, oral or anal with the lady and walked out.. i am worried about risk of HIv transmission. It is less than 48 hrs from the incident. Do I need any post exposure prophylaxis?
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