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please help
i am so worried because i have symptoms as my partner (girl) has symptomes.
i am a male 32. i had unprotected sex with a female (csw) in 2013.
- did a rapid test (finger blood) after 6 weeks it came negative.
- i did a second rapid test after 15 weeks came negative.

and after 10 months i did :
- ECLIA test : Anti HIV1 &2 & sous-type 0 + Ag p24 and
- chromatographique rapide.
- all STD test = results are negative

symptoms:
after 3 years now i have symptoms like shortness of breath and dry cough with no responding to inhaler. and repeated night sweat.

my partner girl symptoms
- irregular period and to much bleeding during the period
- Abnormal vaginal discharge.
- fatigue
- nausea

can you help me and telling me what to do please. do i have to test again??
my life is getting so bad.

had sex yesterday

i have sex lesser than 24 hours ago , she had gave me oral and we had sex for like 3 mins but i didn't cum in her but your pussy was every wet , and her juicys where on my penis .i have a feels i might gotting aids

Clearview Complete Test at 15 weeks

Hi,
Recently I have been extremely concerned about my HIV testing, especially since I have/am experiencing a few symptoms. I am a nineteen year old female and my possible exposure was on November 1st of 2015 with a male through vaginal intercourse. I unfortunately did not know his status. While were were having sex, at some point the condom broke. I do not remember the details, (I was somewhat intoxicated and this was quite a while ago) but I fear that he did not realize the condom had broken until after he had finished. I then performed oral sex on him (I know that is low risk but I am just trying to be as specific as I can be). I then saw him about a week and a half later on Nov. 11 and we had protected sex and I performed oral again (unprotected). After this (2 weeks) I went to the Women's Clinic at my university and tested negative for chlamydia and gonorrhea. At this point I was not experiencing any symptoms of ARS (at least I don't remember any). A little less than two months later I got a deep cough and sore throat after a late night out in the cold. The sore throat went away in a day but the cough has been on and off ever since, sometimes with phlegm, sometimes without. I then started to think about HIV. At 81 days after the unprotected sex and about 10 weeks after the protected, I tested negative with an Oraquick Home Rapid Test. I might add that I was extremely careful with following the instructions. This test provided me with some relief, but a couple of weeks later (13 weeks past possible exposure) I got a cold. The cough was worse and with congestion in my head/nose and a sore throat. The doctor said my lymph nodes in my neck were a bit swollen but not too bad, no fever or anything. She have me some cold medicine and it cleared up in a week, but the cough still lingers on and off today. Because of the cold, I decided to test again with Oraquick (seeing that the first test was not past 12 weeks since exposure). At exactly 14 weeks since the most recent possible exposure (the protected sex and unprotected oral on Nov. 11th) I tested negative with Oraquick. Being me, I was still extremely freaked out as I dwelled on the experiences and scheduled a test at my clinic. On February 23rd (16+ weeks post the high risk unprotected sex and 15 weeks since the lower oral risk) I was tested with a Clearview Complete rapid antibody HIV 1/2 Test, which I think is a 2nd Gen. test. The result came back nonreactive. Despite these few tests I cannot shake the idea that I could be HIV positive, especially since I am still experiencing the cough with a few other symptoms like occasional headaches, congestion and some mild joint pain. I have been to the doctor several times since and she has told me not to worry too much, seeing that it is most likely due to allergies and the weather here, but nothing really seems to work. I have even expressed my fear of HIV to her. My main fear is that I have/am seroconverting late so my tests would not have picked up antibodies. I know that some say the window period is 3 months, but I have also read i that you cannot be sure you are negative until after a 6 month test, especially after you had a high risk event like mine, or if your "medical history is incompatible with the tests". I really do not understand that last statement, does it mean that since I still have symptoms I should test again? I'll add that I have not had any health issues in the past so I really do not know why I would be a late seroconverter, nor am I on any serious meds. Since the experiences I have not engaged in any high risk actives, out of fear that I will infect someone I care about. Also, I really do not know much about the Clearview Complete test, just that it is only a second gen. test. Which makes me worry if it is as updated/popular/recommend as other tests. I am getting a 6 month test (Clearview) on Tuesday, but am terrified! Is there a large likelihood that I will be positive? Are these rapid antibody tests that I have been taking any less reliable then a blood test? Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to my worries, it is extremely appreciated!

What is the possibility of the Oraquick advance HIV-1/2 oral swab being wrong?

Here's what happen on 8/21/15 I had sex with a guy. There was a few seconds (like 5 seconds) at the beginning that he did not have a condom on after that he put a condom on. when he go close to finishing he pulled out and finished in the condom. I was not sure of his HIV status and so I was worried and when to a place where they do HIV testing using the Oraquick advance HIV-1/2 oral swab i got tested on 3/8/16 just a little over 6 mouths after the encounter the test was negative. I'm still worried the test may have been wrong. I have not done anything with any one sins then.
1.Also should I get retested?
2.Do I need to be worried about symptoms now?
3.What was my risk?
4.Is there a chance the test was wrong?

Please help me, i'm having hypochondria...

hi my name is XXXXX, i'm single, 24 year old straight guy...i had vaginal sex with a prostitute woman (April 1, 2016)...it's my first time to try a hooker, I used a condom, but i don't feel anything, what i do is, I took off my condom to satisfy my pleasure...and yes i know, it's possible for me to have an HIV from that woman, what i'm going to ask is how many PERCENT i would get HIV?...because it bothers me a lot, i can't focus on my activities every single time, i feel paranoid on this, please help me....by the way i'm from the Philippines...

Oraquick oral swab help

Here's what happen on 8/21/15 I had sex with a guy. There was a few seconds (like 5 seconds) at the beginning that he did not have a condom on after that he put a condom on. when he go close to finishing he pulled out and finished in the condom. I was not sure of his HIV status and so I was worried and when to a place where they do HIV testing using the Oraquick advance HIV-1/2 oral swab i got tested on 3/8/16 just a little over 6 mouths after the encounter the test was negative. I'm still worried the test may have been wrong. I have not done anything with any one sins then.
1. Also should I get retested?
2. should I be worried it was wrong?
3. im not doing anything with anyone would I have symptom of it now?

worries about HIV

Hai Sir,

I am having as unprotected sex 20 years back.I check after 3 years (Elisa test) its comes negative , And now last 10 years iam working in dubai.Every 2 years thay are taking blood for for testing (i hope so) & all are passed.

Now the problem i feel is a lymph node on right side of my neck (i took heavy antibiotic but not going down) & feel too much tired.

Is this any chance of HIV. Iam too much worried,Please help me sir.

Thanks
joe

Please, some peace of mind

Hello
I am a 22 years-old MSM. Until now, I've had 10 sexual encounters. Only one of them led to anal intercourse, with me being the unprotected receptive man with a guy of unknown status. After that time, I had two more encounters (receptive oral sex without ejaculation). The last one of these encounters took place almost two months after my first anal experience.
Then I lost my mind and the testing frenzy took place for the first time. 16 days after my last exposure, I got a RNA HIV-1 test form LarbCorp: NEGATIVE. That same day, I took an Oraquick which turned out to be negative. A very faint line appeared on the T zone after about one week of taking the test (I kept it as a "souvenir"). 5 weeks after my last exposure (that is, more than 3 months after my high-risk exposure) I took a blood test (it was an immunochromatography for antibodies like OraQuick but with blood). The first test I took that time developed a red linear faint spot perpendicular to the C line, on the T zone. I took another test then since the first one seemed to be defectuous, and the result was negative.
I know that I have got 3 -ve results so far. The RNA test is usually nor recommended for diagnostics although LapCorp claims that its test is FDA-approved. The Oraquick test was taken during the window period, although it had already been about two months after my high-risk exposure. The blood test I took with proper timing was negative, but I still have the image of the defective test on my mind.
I am planning to get psychological support, but I feel that I need to be sure of my status before doing so. What do you think taking into account your experiences? what about the timing and the incidents I had? Should I get re-tested? Which test should I get? Anything that you tell me would be very appreciated...I am seriously losing my mind about this situation. I feel like I haven't found peace of mind after so many attempts...

hiv

i just kissed on prostitutes lips and l licked just once near head of pussy and i inserted my pennis and removed immeditely, i not inserted completely my pennis , my head of pennis inserted and removed immeditely i not even penetrated while i inserted my pennis in pussy and prostitute done hand job to me with this activites i get hiv

My Anxiety Makes Me Think I Have HIV

Good afternoon,

On March 17th and April 10th I had unprotected sex. One morning I woke up and thought, "Oh shit, what if I have contracted an STD. Well I got tested for STDs/HIV and the tests came back negative. The nurse said I should get retested in 6 months to a year just to make sure. Well, I also have anxiety. I keep having what I believe to by symptoms but I have a big feeling that it is just my anxiety telling me I have it. My throat has been sore (not bad, just annoying) for like two days and I have been tired (I am a college student, I am always tired). I keep checking my neck for swollen lymph nodes because I am sure that they will become swollen at any moment. Sometimes when I get out of a hot shower I have a heat rash on my chest and arms (which goes away within 1/2 an hour) and I am certain it is HIV. My mind keeps racing with the thought that I have HIV and I don't know what to do. I know the symptoms for HIV but I am not sure how severe they have to be until I become concerned. How sore does my throat have to be? What kind of rash do I need to look for? How long should I wait to get retested (if I wait 6 months I will go insane)?

Thank You

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