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I am male and had a unprotected oral sex with male 3 and half months back there was no penetration just touched his anus with my tool,he said he had mouth sores due to heat regular and took b complex tablets,so after 10 days i just had some pimples on my right arm shoulder and checked with doctor it was not herpes ,but I had intercourse with my wife and started worrying about hiv thinking that if his semen touched my penis tip,so I got tested myself with tridot test four times at different intervals and last test was at 13th week I took which all came negative ,so i spoke to that guy whether does he is infected he said no and I requested him to get tested with the same tridot test on 7th week from our exposure and again on 14 week with same tridot test which came negative,so my question is that is am I free from infection and can I move in my life ahead without any kind of sexual acts with anyone else just want to be active with my wife kindly pls answer me


Hello and thanks for reaching out to the AIDS Vancouver Helpline with your question. We are glad to be of assistance.

It seems like you are concerned whether the HIV test results you got 13 weeks after the exposure are conclusive.

All HIV tests are considered conclusive 3 months or 12 weeks after the exposure. Since your last test was done 13 weeks after the exposure then the results would be conclusive.

You did not indicate whether you conducted these tests yourself or you went to a testing centre. We encourage people to have their HIV tests done at a clinic or a test centre because care is taken to ensure that the process is not contaminated and also they have resources like counselling. If you did the tests yourself then we encourage you to approach a clinic or a test centre for you to have conclusive results. If the results you got are from a test centre then they are conclusive.

At AIDS Vancouver we encourage HIV testing as a regular health maintenance routine. Our website and our Online Forum will provide additional information that is related to your question.

Thank you for contacting the AIDS Vancouver Helpline.


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