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Band-Aid + Handjob = HIV risk?

Question: 

Many greetings!
I went to an adult massage parlor where i received a handjob from a lovely african woman.
However, i noticed she had a band-aid on during the massage and handjob.
Midway she had to leave the room, and upon return im not sure if she'd replaced it or removed it.
As it was clearly a cut needing a band aid, im worried that i may have been exposed to blood in my urethra as there was vigorous rubbing of my glans and tip, not just my shaft.
With a band aid is this a risk? Perhaps the oil made it too soggy?
What if she removed the band aid altogether???
Do i need to test for this? How about for HIV-2 as she was from africa?

Thankyou. I feel horrible to ask these questions as she and i got along very well and i would like to see her again...but my paranoia has got the best of me.

Answer: 

Hello, HIV is transmitted through unprotected sex or sharing needles. It is not transmitted through skin to skin contact (i.e. handjobs) or through small cuts on the hand. The only time this has ever happened was during a knife fight that involved fresh, open, gaping wounds. This doesn't sound like it was the case for you so you needn't be concerned about a potential exposure. For future reference, it is the activities one engages in and not who one has sex with that puts them at risk for HIV transmission. This means that sex workers and African people are not more inherently "risky" than everyone else.

Take care, Maggie