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Question: 

Hi , I am a guy from India , I did domething stupid . Got very drunk and had sex with a call Girl . Let me elaborate that bit here . She put a condom on me . I think it was okay . She got on top and gave 10-12 thrusts post which I got on her and gave 4-5 thrusts . There was no semen which was out . I was too drunk and not interested to do it so she gave me a hand job . That did not do the trick so I got the condom off and mastrubated myself . At the time I think the condom was intact . It did not seem broken or torn . I have no idea about her HIV status let alone viral load . This happened 3 days back and now I am scared . I have read all I could online , which has reassured me that chances of HIV with Condom are very less unless the condom tears .One thing to mention here is that I think her virgina was dry ( On account of her not being emotionally attached and everything ) . I will get the 28 day HIV 1 and 2 Antibody done but every second is killing me . All I want to know is that what are my odds .

Answer: 

Hello,

Thank you for your inquiry. From what we gather from the question, you were asking about the chances of acquiring HIV from protected sex. The risk of acquiring HIV from having vaginal or anal sex with a condom is low (evidence of transmission occurs through these activities when certain conditions are met). As stated by the World Health Organization, "Condoms, when used correctly and consistently, are highly effective in preventing HIV and other sexually transmitted infections" [1]. For a risk to exist, specific HIV+ fluids (e.g. semen, pre-cum, vaginal fluid, rectal fluid) must come into direct contact with the bloodstream of an HIV- person. [2] From our understanding though, you are not sure whether the condom was used correctly or not. The only way to know whether you are HIV positive is take an HIV test.

Recommendation: Refer to Physician for HIV test.

Regards, AIDS Vancouver Helpline/Online, Ashley