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i went to erotic massage many times with different women.
Every time, the masseuse and I did the same thing :
First the handjob, and after that she put the condom on my penis and then we had protected oral sex + protected vaginal sex with the same condom. At the end, i always put some water in the condom to see if it broke.
I remember that I verified every time except for one time long ago i do not remember if i verified the condom.
I don't think the condom broke or something i did not feel anything strange.
I'm very hypochondriac i need to know if i have to get tested for HIV???
Thank you for your time



Thank you for your inquiry. From what we gather from the question, you were asking about acquring HIV through protected oral sex and protected vaginal sex. From the information given, this scenario is determined to be Low Risk (Evidence of transmission occurs through these activities when certain conditions are met).

HIV transmission occurs when bodily fluid containing HIV has direct access to the bloodstream through a high risk activity.

The transmission equation is satisfied through these activities. In this scenario the protected oral sex is deemed to be a Negligible Risk. The protected vaginal sex is determined to be Low Risk. This is due to the possibility of condom misuse or breakage (1). If you ever feel anxiety over possible HIV acquisition the best thing to do for your mental and physical health is to get tested and know your status.

Recommendation: Refer to Physician for HIV test.


AIDS Vancouver Helpline/Online, Danielle