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smooching and fingering

Question: 

Hello I am Michael.i was with a known girl 3 days before and we got physical.i do not know about her past sex life but she has had more than 2 sex partners.the activities we did were-

1. smooching (kissing),i had a small cut inside my lower lip.we kissed for like 20 min.
2. fingering her vagina for like 15 min.i had a small cut on the side of my thumb nail but no blood was coming out.

WE DID NOT HAVE SEX OR ANY TYPE OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.NO ANAL SEX,NO ORAL SEX AND NO SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

PLEASE help me because i m going mad thinking about this that has the virus entered my body. It has been only three days, are there any tests that can be done in a span of three days or within a month ?? If yes then please tell me the name of the tests.
It would be really kind a few to give me advice as soon as possible. Should I worry or not ? Please help. Thank you very much.

michael

Answer: 

Hi Michael,

Thank you for choosing AIDS Vancouver for your source of HIV/AIDS related information. It's great to see that you are taking initiative when it comes to your health and well being!

Rest assured, the situation you have described does not warrant the need for concern: you are at a negligible risk for HIV transmission. What this means is that no one has ever acquired HIV from the situation you have described. Kissing is not a mode of transmission for HIV - even if blood was present, saliva is able to break down and kill the virus. Fingering is considered a negligible risk - in order for HIV to be transmitted through a cut, the cut needs to be quite large and size and be actively bleeding. You do not require testing for HIV for this particular situation, as HIV is transmitted through unprotected anal/vaginal sex and injecting with shared needles.

At AIDS Vancouver, we do advocate that all sexually active individuals get tested for all sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, as part of their health routine. This can be in the form of testing every 3 months, bi-annually, annually or whatever suits their lifestyle. All available HIV testing options are conclusive 12 weeks (or 84 days) post exposure, provided there have been no other exposures during that window period.

I hope I have addressed all of your concerns, and if you have any other questions please feel free to contact us back!

All the best,

Greg