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unprotected not completed sex without insertion

Question: 

hi ,

please advise me i had big mistake to hire a call girl in dubai at 30th of april 2016 .
i had 2 hiv antibodies tests negative at day 48 and 55 .. i believe it is not the fourth generation test ..

i also tested hiv p24 antigen negative in day 55 ..(also not the 4th generation )

i didnt insert into her , i only recieved blowjob , i fingered her in he back bottom , there was alot of surface contacts without condum and without insertion ( vagainal surface contacts without insertion ) .. alot of kisses and hugs and i recieved oral sex for more than 20 minutes ...

i had some symptomes , like neck lymph pain ( still with me ) , tempreture up to 38.5 ( lasted for 14 days and now gone ) , some red spots on my chest and stomach with small white heads ( now gone )

i got some analysis found that i am EBV +, CMV + , HSV-1 &2 + ,

yesterday i tested hiv i&ii Ag&Ab and teh result came negative ( this was after 63 days from the exposure and i dont know if it is 4th generation or not )

please advise as i am living in a nightmare
thanks

Answer: 

Hi there, and thanks a lot for contacting the AIDS Vancouver Helpline for your HIV/AIDS related health information. It seems you have some questions after an encounter. We're happy to answer your questions for you.

We'll first go through the risks associated with your encounter. Receiving oral sex is considered a negligible risk activity. Negligible risk means that while transmissions have been theorized to be possible, none have actually been documented to actually occur. "Fingering" is a no risk activity, meaning transmissions do not occur this way. Any other surface contact you may have had are also no risk activities.

To understand why, we encourage you to check out our transmission equation:

HIV TRANSMISSION EQUATION

BODY FLUID
+
ACTIVITY
+
DIRECT ACCESS TO BLOODSTREAM
• blood (including menstrual) • unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse • vagina
• semen • sharing needles • anus
• pre-cum • mother to child (in specific cases) • urethra in the penis
• rectal secretions • open cuts and sores (in theory)
• vaginal fluids • other mucosal membranes
• breast milk • points of needle injection

= RISK OF HIV TRANSMISSION

As for the symptoms you are experiencing, we at AIDS Vancouver are not healthcare providers, so cannot comment on them. However, HIV infections are never diagnosed based on symptoms alone, simply because the symptoms of an HIV infection are quite common to many other common medical conditions. Testing is the only way to diagnose an HIV infection. If you're concerned about any symptoms you're experiencing, we'd encourage you to see a healthcare provider about them. It's great you went for testing, as we at AIDS Vancouver recommend testing for all sexually active individuals. As for testing after this specific encounter, we'd say it is not required.

Thanks a lot for contacting the AIDS Vancouver Helpline with your questions, we hope they have been answered fully.

Trevor

AIDS Vancouver Helpline/Online
helpline.aidsvancouver.org