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Afraid that my Cum leaked from the condom

Hi. I had sex with a lady of unknown status and I used a condom. After a minute, I noticed some pre-cum (not so plenty) inside the condom. At this point, I pulled out, took off the condom and placed it on the chair. After about 10 minutes, I tried to check the condom, but didnt see the pre-cum anymore. I checked the chair, but it wasnt wet, and i didnt notice cum on the floor either. But, I saw extremely tiny bubbles lined up by the side of the condom close to the tip. Could the pre-cum have leaked as I didnt wear the condom according to the methods described, or could it have been the lady's vaginal fluid? What is my risk of contracting HIV? Did the condom break or could the pre-cum have dried up in that short time? There is some harmattan and I have a sore throat. Am I seroconverting? Thanks

3 questions, Please help!

Thankyou for taking time to look at my questions.
1) if I withdrew and saw ejaculate in condom, is it safe to assume there was no failure?

2) in mutual masturbation, if the woman uses her vaginal fluid on her hands and then proceeds to stimulate the male, is this a risk? As urethra is being exposed to fluids?

3) I've seen a lot of debate on Hiv antibody/antigen testing and definitive/ conclusive results.
In Australia, I've been told that this type of test is 99% conclusive at 6 weeks, and 100% conclusive in 12 weeks. Is the test at 6 weeks good enough to move on?

Thankyou again for taking the time to review my questions.
It is muchly appreciated.

Confused about low risk


I know receiving oral is a negligible risk meaning so small as to be of no concern and that giving oral is low risk aswell as condom protective sex being low risk.

Why are protective condom sex and giving oral both classes as low risk?

Is they are both low risk, is it basically worry free to perform either?

I know there can be minor risks with condom breakage and with oral very very specific circumstances that can cause infection ( pre exsisting sti in the throat, poor oral health and poor overall health).

Are they both in the same risk level category?

Thanks you in advance for your reply.

Advice please on condoms

I had protected sex however as I pulled out the condom had slipped a little (head was still covered and I could see ejaculate in the teat so I'm assuming no failure??.)
Is it possible for a condom to break yet retain ejaculate in the teat?
Also, when I took off the condom there was a lot of vaginal fluid on the base of my penis and on the condom. I might of brushed my head with said fluid as I took off the condom.
Am I at risk? Do i need to test? Is a duo good/ conclusive at 6weeks?
Very concerned.
Thankyou for any help.

regarding hiv

i had muscles swollen on my neck and above my waist bone after one month of having a protected vaginal and oral sex(double condom). i went to the doctor and he said that they are not swollen glands, they are just muscles swollen because of tightening the body and i also showed a sore under my tongue which the dr confirmed as aspthous ulcer and said nothing to worry. i have also given a hiv test, after one month of having sex and im expecting my test results shortly. is there any possibility that i will get infected. im sure that there were not much friction to make my condom break... please reply me as soon as possible... can i be infected only if the fluids pass in through my pee hole?

Scared of HIV (Tired and Sore throat, dizzy, fatigue). Thanks

Hello. I had protected sex with a female sex worker and I am not sure whether the condom was expired or not, and also I did not wear the condom according to the prescribed ways of wearing a condom( I basically stretched it and placed it on my organ). After intercourse, i did not notice any leaks, as the cum remained inside the condom after pulling out, though i am scared that there is a microscopic hole that may have resulted from the stretch). I also did some fingering and placed my mouth on her breasts( I had no bleeding cuts on my lips even though i bite my lips regularly). After six days, I am feeling a bit tired although I can still perform regular tasks and move about normally, but sometimes i feel a bit sleepy and dizzy. I have been very worried and depressed and scared of hiv infection that i cannot function. I am scared to tell anyone that i am infected with HIV. I also have cough and cattarh and a sore throat. I also understand that there has been some wind and rainfall here. I have no fever and no night sweats, no swollen lymph nodes and i sleep without my clothes on without feeling cold. I am scared that I am seroconverting and am having hiv symptoms such as fatigue, dizziness and sorethroat. Kindly assess my situation and exposure to hiv. Is my anxiety and depression a cause for the symptoms (especially fatigue) or am I truly seroconverting. Please help me out. Thanks

about HIV

2 years ago i used 2 condoms on my penis and inserted it into a sex worker vagina.I just gave her 4 strokes and stopped as I Did not feel like having sex with her.Till now I did not find any symptoms of HIV in my body.I read in internet that symptoms will not appear for a long period.Please can you help me in clearing my doubt.I am too much worried about it.

Regarding HIV

I had swollen lymph nodes at my neck and two of the doctors said that it wasnt swollen lymphs it was just the muscle which is swollen. I had protected sex(double condom) before one month with a sex worker in England and i didn't smooch her. My penis was just in her for 2 to 3 minutes and i took it out soon before I came. Is there any possibility for me to get infected by HIV if the partner is been infected?

Got candidiasis from a sex worker!

My erection always dies out whenever i put on condom... It was a sex worker... first she gave me a hard and rash blowjob... i tried to do it with condom but i failed three times... out of frustration, i got on top of her without condom and rubbed my penis on to her vagina for at least 10 minutes... then suddenly i realized that my penis got into her... the moment i realized that i pulled it out... you can say it stayed inside her for at least 2-3 second... ...4-5 days after that encounter i spotted red spots on tip of my penis... i was getting worse every day... i went to a doctor... he diagnosed it as candidiasis(yeast infection)... and also suggested me to take HIV test after 4 weeks from the encounter and repeat it after 12 weeks... my candidiasis got OK after few days and i took 4 week hiv test it came back negative... but im still worried about my next test... suppose that sex worker has HIV what are the chances that my next test will come negative... and when should i take it again... now its my 5th week after the exposure... please help!!

unprotected oral and rubbing.


Its great to see you guys are helping out the community.

Couple of days ago, I went to the sauna and met 2 guys.
First guy, i gave him unprotected oral sex. No taste of pre-cum. He was pretty dry. I dont think I have any injury in my mouth. Then he rubbed his penis against my anus very hard, unprotected, but couldnt penetrate because I am very tight and he was big.Then we stopped.

Second guy, we had protected anal sex and he was the receiver.I checked the condom afterwards and it was not broken.

What are the risk involved here?

Pls kindly help as it is freaking me out specially what happened with the first guys.

Thank u heaps : )


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