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Possible HIV infection

I really appreciate the work you guys are doing. I have had a sexual intercourse in Bangladesh where i had Vaginal and oral sex. I had used a condom to limit my risk but i was a little drunk and could not have proper intercourse though i had penetrated her vagina 5 or 6 times.She then used a tissue to remove her vaginal fluids it took her approximately 2 mins and then she performed oral sex after a few mins she had taken the condom off and now she performed oral sex without condom. I am worried i might get HIV through this session i had done 3 Elisa 3rd generation tests one at 2 week after the intercourse one at 22 days and one at 29 days. i have a cold and tonsils inflated also the right part of my neck is stiff and i have had 2 inflated lumps. Please give me a feed back it would be really hepful

he finally told me he is HIV POSITIVE!!

I was with a male yesterday. he started touching my dick as soon i get to his place
then he was giving me a hand job WITHOUT CONDOM.
then he put a condom on me and started sucking WITH A CONDOM ON .
he never finished me.

then I put CONDOM ON him and started sucking him.
he never finish.

then I attempted to penetrate him WITH CONDOM
but my dick was not able to penetrate him because it went soft

DAY AFTER THAT I got unprotected sex with my wife of 9 years.
does it mean i infected her already?

chances of infected me with HIV from him?

I will make it simple please address my concern


i attempt to penetrate him with a condom, but i failed because my penis went soft multiple time.
we had mutual oral sex both of us wearing a latex condom.
none of us finish while practicing protected oral sex.


he grabbed both dick and put it together.
mutual handjobs, we did not finish while doing it.
NO kissing
NO other thing happened.

What chance of catch hiv do i have?
do i warrant hiv test?

HIV concerns

last week i had bath and sex with sex worker in intercourse i used condom but after removal of condom i touched the outer part of condom which was wet then i washed my hands but i am not sure i touched my hands to penis in that period after 10 to 15 min we she sucked my penis for 5 min . so can this is possibility of hiv ??? plz suggest me i am very tensed now . can i go for hiv test.

i am so scared

i am male i had a protected sex with sex worker four weeks ago an during the sex i have noticed that their was a very tiny hole in the condom on the top of red skin after watching that i got in tension but after i saw to many posts that HIV is not an easy virus to transmit.
but after 4 weeks now i am feeling chills, fatigue and very acute pain in the center of my neck i don't know it is sore throat or anything else. these symptoms are disappearing slowly slowly in 4 days but i saw so many post on internet about the early HIV symptoms so i am totally believe that i have HIV. I went to the test they told my the result will be out in 2 weeks .
but i am so scared that i got HIV so please tell me what are my chances of getting HIV through that tiny hole as after noticing the condom doesn't break more but i am still worrying so please tell me the chances of getting infected with HIV or is it just anxiety.

Gum Disease and Experience with HIV+ person

Hi. I seriously need help right now. I was diagnosed with Periodontal disease (Gum Problem) and from that moment i stopped doing Blowjob to someone without condom. However there are times when i kissed a guy but normally its just smooching (without tongue, normally its lip to lip but on a numerous level). I have experience a lot of oral sex wherein i am the insertive partner, if sometimes i do blowjob i make sure they are wearing condom. I never do anal fun (NEVER) because i am very much aware that it has a high risk of acquring the virus. even with condom because i normally get paranoid very easily.

One day i met this guy from gay app. I had a swollen gums at the back of my molar. I kissed him and again without tongue because i know that i have a swollen gums and i dont know if i have cuts in my mouth. He gave me a blowjob without protection and he just jerked off until finish. I just suck his nipples to also help him cum faster. After awhile he admitted he is HIV positive. And now im slowly dying with fear and anxiety, i couldnt sleep or eat. please help me i need giudance.

1. Do i need testing with this incident?
2. With so many insertive oral sex that i did, did i put my self on risk?
3. Could i get infected with if we only did smooching without tongue? Could my gum disease be a factor even if its just lip to lip on a numerous level?

Please help me.....

made a mistake with a weird guy

Hi. today i met with a guy i met on online. He told me to stop by his house.
i went to his place. he started touching my penis. it was awkward because he was in a such a rush.
we went upstair to his room and he started to massage my dick, all of the sudden he told me to fuck him.
i said i do not do that. he insisted and sat down on my dick , of course i was wearing a condom.

then we tryied different position but i did not feel my dick never entered because i was little bit limp or flassid
due to the frustration of having a hard time to stick it in to his butt.

he sucked me with condom, i also sucked him with a condom
but he never finished. and i finished myself with the condom on

do i have to go and get tested for HIV?
i am just concerned about it , because he later texted me asking if i have poppers
so, i knew right there that he is not reliable, and maybe do others drugs
do you think i put myself at risk.?

i brought the condom to my house, and tested it, filled with tub water in the bathroom and it was perfectly intact no damage on it. do you think i have to go and get tested?

Clinic Called.

Hi there, so i received a call yesterday telling me that i have 'Been exposed to HIV and Chlamydia' from a clinic in Vancouver. I immediately arranged to go and get tested. When there, they did full spectrum tests including, i assume an RNA test (10-12 days window was given for that test) and a pinprick test. I also took medication for the Chlamydia

Now, because i limit my sexual contact to purely oral sex out of a relationship, I assumed my risk was low to very low to contract HIV from oral alone? Could you clarify the level of risk on that front for me given that
A. it's obvious the person involved has been recently diagnosed, and thereby likely to have a higher viral load (?)
B. they also tested positive for chlamydia, which i understand increases your likelihood to catch another STD, but does it also increase your infectiveness?

I have OCD so this situation creates a great deal of anxiety in me. Im trying my best to manage it and be calm. Just to clarify, my pinprick result from yesterday was negative, i have had no unprotected anal sex or even protected anal sex since my last tests which were window-period proof, and i have ONLY performed oral on maybe 3-4 guys, and received oral from a few more

There is one evening in the club i blacked out for 20 minutes and was thrown out for being too drunk - something that I actually stopped drinking over, but i am extremely doubtful that would have lead to sex inside a club, and i would have known about it, as there would have been someone else ejected with me for such an act.

french kissing and safe? sex

Hello. I am writing from Peru. Please help. I have had three encounters with Transvestite prostitutes. I regret it now. They have the higher index of infection in my country. But look what happened is that I had sexual intercourse with one of them, penetrated with a condom on, for 15 seconds then I pulled out fearing infection. I checked the condom aftewards, it was ok, no cuts. Then I have run into these same sexual workers another 3 other times. BUT in this occasions I have only KISSED them. I didnt dare to go all the way. So I just French Kissed with 3 of them. I am worried because these people have the higher rate of infection in my country, and I french kissed with 3 of them and had protected anal intercourse with one of them.

What do you think?

Thank you!

Get to know medicine for throat infection

I got a throat paining with high fever for three days after a sex with someone who at street i used condoms well safety but i kiss her mouth for a short time so, after a day i was get high fever i had a full blood count it says i having throat inflectional germ, according to that a doctor gave me medicine i was cured well no fever but my throat paining is few and few still at my body i can't speak more time louder than before it is like a paining. Any medicine for this I'm 24 age male from Asian country


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