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Potential HIV+ semen on towel + other sex acts

Hey, I came here to just get an opinion on what I should do. So earlier today (About 3 PM EST), I hooked up with a guy (I'm gay), I didn't know too much about him, but I did so anyway. I know, definitely horrible judgement on my part. There was no anal, but we did do some other stuff. We jerked each other off, he did suck my dick, we frotted (rubbing our dicks together, tip of our penises didn't touch though), and I rimmed his ass a little bit. Just some small kisses to his cheeks and hole, I didn't stick my tongue in his ass though.

Also, he came on my chest. So he wiped off with a towel. Then like 3 mins later, after dry humping his butt (tip didn't touch his butt), I came on his back. We wipe off with the same towel. The only thing is... that towel touched the tip of my penis. I'm not sure if it was the side with the cum on it or not. And I know nothing about this guy, I don't know his status and what not. We didn't do anything too crazy, but I'm still just worried and am wondering if I should go on PEP. So far it's been 8 hours since this all took place, so I would really appreciate a response back soon. Thank you all. Sorry if this post is too messy, and sorry if this has already been asked. I just wanted a clear opinion from you guys, about all the stuff I did.

Also, here's a re-cap of what I did in case you're confused:
-We were kissing
-We both rubbed each other's dicks
-He sucked my dick
-I rimmed his ass (no tongue)
-We frotted (tips of penis didn't touch)
-I dry humped his butt (tip didn't touch his hole)
-His cum was on a towel for 3 mins before it touched mine

Cunilingus Risk

Hello! I'm a man and I had a sex with a girl, but the vaginal sex was protected so I hope there is no risk. What I'm mostly worried about is the oral sex. I was performing cunilingus and I'm worried about the risk of HIV transmission this way. Is it a high risk, should I be worried?

HIV through broken phone screen

Hi All,

First of all i wanna thank you for your assitance answering all the questions.

Last week i went to a bar i was talking to an escort who took my phone and saved her number. The problem is that i used my phone directly after i took it from her and my phone has a broken screen. I have been using it for 2 months and i did get any injury. Assuming that she injured herself by the broken screen and when i used it after her i had some scratches. Does this put me into risk as i didnt see coz it was very dark inside the bar.

Furthermore, when we went home she took shower and i only had tit fuck with her i was wearing a condom ut at the end i realized that the condom was removed. I did not have any sort of anal vaginal oral sex with her. It was only tit fuck.

does the above 2 incidents put me into risk?

Appreciate your assistance.

Careless and reckless mistake

I made a mistake and got very very drunk with some friends who, at the end of the night, paid for all of us to get rooms and prostitutes. My friends told me I could do whatever I want but just don't "put it in". So I was able to control myself a bit,... When she arrived, we both took a shower and cleaned ourselves well. After drying off, I sucked on her breasts for a while, then I put on a condom and she gave me a protected blow job. She then crawled up a bit and was about to put my penis into her vagina when I asked her not to. She grabbed my penis anyway and rubbed it against her vagina and the head went in a little, the condom was still on and intact from it's appearance. Then she changed position and I played with her vagina with my hands a little, then wiped my hands against the bedsheets, removed the condom, and proceed to finish between her breasts.

I feel like I've read these forums a bit and not sure whether this was any risk or not... ? Needless to say, I feel emotionally guilty as I had swore to never mess with prostitutes, but I was really drunk and my friends paid for it and I did not want to disappoint them...


Thanks for your support

I had an anonymous and a little itchy minor skin rash that came a few days after I had different protected sexual encounters with someone whose HIV status is unknown to me but got romours later from people she is well known to that she is HIV+. This rush went away a after 3-4 days when i applied a cream given to me by my doctor. We also engaged in unprotected oral sex where she had leaked my pen**s for some minutes (BJ) and we deeply kissed. I asked her later to go for HIV test and she was hesitant, something which made me some how believe the romours. I mmediately did determine test en tested -ve, i did it again after 40 days of my last encounter with her en tested -ve, I am yet to do another one at 60 days and 90 days but i am so scared and worried that she could have infected me. wat could have been the cause of the minor rush and for it to have come around this period after sexual encounters ??? is there any other test i can do apart from determine and PCR before 90 days??, please advise me, but i will never be this stupid again if i survive this tragedy,, YK from Uganda


Hi ,

I am ratan from india.I had done protected sex with sex worker in Jan(26th).I have done 1st test serology antibody H1/H2 (Rapid solid phase immuno-chromatography method) on 27 th Feb ,result Negative.2nd test on 10 March westorn Blot Negative.3rd Test on 12 May (serology antibody H1/H2 (Rapid solid phase immuno-chromatography method) result negative.Shall i Consider me HIV negative Person?

Question regardins STDs

Hi Aids Vancouver Helpline! Congratulations on easing pleople's fear! You guys are truly professionals!
I wanted to contact you because I want to move forward, but everytime I intend to do so I fail.
I had a very low risky encounter 7 and a half months ago. I only tested for HIV as it was my only concern at the moment. No one seems to know whether some other Stds, such as syphilis or hept.B become indetectable after a peiod of time. I am about to get tested for all STDs (including HIV again) and I am really confused, I'd mean a lot to me if you could clarify it for me!

can HIV spread through open kissing and nipple sucking

sir, i am from india. about 4 to 5 days ago i went to a prostitute area. where i intercourse with a girl by wearing condom. but sir the main problem is i suck her nipple and go for dip kissing with her mouth . i have no cut in my mouth (but a little wound this is for excess use of water.i dont know the english meaning) and i think she also not.and whenever i suck her breast there is no wound in her breast also. and i m little concerned is condome break during intercourse she says not. Is there have any risk?

Hiv risk

I had a sex with a sex worker,we start with romance in the process i used my penis to hit her vaginal,as i was hitting the vaginal with my penis head the vaginal fluid was splashing on the head of my penis after that i used ma hand to clean up the fluid on ma penis and also used the bed spread to clean my penis and my hand as well before i ware on my condom and engage her after sex i waited for 10mint before urinating and was up ma penis tips to feel if there were no wound on ma penis and also put water on the condom to see if the condom was save from a hole on it too
,so am scared it might pass through my urethra,you once the penis erect the urethra can be open. I have a wife,am scared if i might have infect her with the virus,since after the sex am not ma self,i have been having weakness all my joints and also feeling feverish and my wife as been complaining of the same thing. The sex worker were hiding her legs for me after the sex she does not want me to see her legs,after some days i call her on her phone to ask her why is she hiding the legs from me,she reply me back by saying she had an accident years back so her legs her badly injured that is why she is hiding the legs by wearing socks on her feet's, it about 2 months and 2weeks now that such things happened to me,i have run test on syphillis it non reactive, urine test also shows all is well i also did hiv own same weeks with other test,all the test took place 10 weeks after the risk. Am from nigeria Dr pls help me with vital answer am waiting pls. Thanks for your support with answers.

Initial HIV testing

HI i had anal gay sex in USA10 days back and i was the recipient. we did use a condom but after a minute (before ejaculation ) I had to answer a call and when i came i noticed my partner was not wearing a condom to which he replied he took it off when i went to answer the call now its stuck in my mind that he tricked me into condom-less sex. I don't know his HIV status. I am super stressed. After 7 days of exposure, except for minor flu (no fever or headache) I don't have any other symptoms defined in various websites. Please can someone advise me If I should take a test now or wait for 3 months . If yes then which test should i take? I am from Pakistan and there are not much options or consulting clinics here.


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