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Worried About HIV From Semen On Anus Area Cut


I am very worried since two days about my encounter with a 60 year old gay man. I am a gay man too from India. I met this old man whose HIV status is unknown in my area. He kissed me a lot all over my body. Then he placed his penis around my groin area, and rubbed his head. Then I turned around and he placed the tip of is penis around my anus area and rubbed all over the back of my testis, groin etc. He then ejaculated on the floor. We did not have any anal penetration or oral stuff. What freaks me out is that I have several cuts, rashes and bruises around my groin, anus area and under my testis near the anus. I am very worried as I keep thinking about the situation where some of his precum, semen might have directly fallen into my small cuts, wounds on my anus and groin area although I saw him ejaculate a lot on the floor not into my body. But still I am a lot more worried. So I would like to know what are my risk in case a small portion on his precum, semen might have directly came into contact into the wounds, cuts on my anus and testis area? What are the chances of contacting HIV? Do I need to test over this situation?

Please help. Expecting your reply as I am really going nuts thinking about the whole encounter.


Touched anus with penis/ but not penetration

I`m a male and After 1 year i saw this guy again which we talk sometimes, but i don't know his status.. i was over his house and we started "playing" and more like kisses, and hand job and oral which i was the receiver, anyway .. we were all over the bed and he pretended that he was going to penetrate but he didn`t at all, not even rubbing my anus.. he was rubbing against my legs and for the 2nd time my legs were wide open and when he moved his "position" he kind touched like for literally 1 or 2 seconds my anus but not penetration.. since my legs were open my anus were kinda a little open but there was not penetration. I`m concerned very concerned.. if he had some precum on the tip of his penis and when happened this move his Slided or touched for 1,2 seconds if it was a risk of contract Hiv? Thanks Brian

Unprotected oral risks

I recently had unprotected oral sex I.e. I received a blowjob from a person of unknown HIV status. There were no cuts on my penis or in the mouth of the person performing the oral act. I asked her about the status of her health and she said she was clean. I know I shouldn't take anyone's word for the status I'm really anxious since the act. It has been 3 days since the act and upon research I have found risk is negligible. I just wanted to know what is the earliest test I can take for diagnosis. I will get the 12 week test but an early test will really calm my nerves.

HIV from fingering vagina with open cut?

At the end of April I fingered a sex worker in SE Asia with a 3-4 mm deep and 6 mm long cut on my finger. Cut was not bleeding and was 2-3 days old. The cut was almost totally healed over 2 days after the incident.

Is there any need for an HIV test?

Can I get HIV from a small cut at the barbershop?

Hello! 7 weeks ago I went to the barbershop in order to get a new haircut and the barber cut me with the razor blade. It was a small cut which healed completely in 3-4 days. I don't know if the blade was changed or sanitized, but I know that the time between me and the previous customer was about 5 minutes. What are the chances to acquire HIV in this way?
Please respond to me because i'm so stressed and depressed and I don't know what to do. I also have 3 swollen lymph nodes at my neck.

Am I at risk?

Hi and thanks for your great service. I had a drunk night and wound up going to a hotel with a girl from a bar. I never ever do this but it happened. We played manually (I fingered her and her anus) and I received oral sex twice. At one point I was between her legs and pushed against her with a limp dick and I don't think I could penetrate her as I was not hard. She reached down to push but I back away. A second time she was going to get on top and I stopped her as I didn't use condoms. Am I at any risk for contacting HIV - I am going to get tested for STIs as I realize that is a risk. But what is my risk for HIV? I have no idea about her sexual history although she said she has been tested in the past and was clean. I am freaking out a bit today. dumb, drunk decision but one I can't take back. Thank you.

oral sex

Hi , I had unprotected introducing oral sex (blow job) with a woman of easy virtue just few secands , her HIV status is not known to me, respectively. The question is: can I get hiv ? And should od test?

Unprotected Oral Sex

I had unprotected oral sex with an escort 6 and half weeks ago.
The thing I am worried is I cum in her mouth. Nothing else was done, no other sex.
I had a full STD testing at 5 weeks and the HIV Rapid test, all came back negative.
The escort also did a full STD Testing on same day at 5 weeks and all came back negative.
What are my chances of contacting HIV afterwards even with no further sexual activity since that oral sex.
Is there anything else I should do or wait for 12 weeks test?

Receiving Oral Sex And open mouth kissing

1.about 2 months ago I received unprotected blowjob from a women after we were done I didn't see any cuts or trace of blood on my penis.
2.about 2 days ago I french kissed a girl, (not that deep) and also Im sure I didn't have bleeding gums but we did it at morning I guess she had her mouth brushed about 30 before kissing. Should I be worried about getting infected?

Mr W


I have visited a massaging parlour recently, and in addition to receiving normal massage services, the masseuse had performed unprotected oral sex on me for two different times, each only lasted for around 5 to 10 SECONDS, which is then followed by an ejaculation. After the second oral sex, I immediately went to take a shower, and had washed my genital area thoroughly with hot water.

I have read different FAQs on the internet and know that the risk of HIV transmission in receiving oral is almost negligible, however, my question is that if the masseuse had poor oral health or maybe a bleeding gum, not really bleeding a lot, but a little like the kind that some people have after brushing their teeth, does that little amount of blood poses risk of HIV transmission practically?

I may seem a bit paranoid, but I was just wondering if that really happens, given the above situation and circumstances, what is my risk of HIV infection? And also how about the other STDs that are practically transmitted per the above? Thank you!


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