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Fingering and break in skin

Dear Sir/Madam

Recently i engaged in an activity with a girl that i don't really know (at least i know she has been with someone else 3 weeks prior to my encounter with her).

I am really worried over this and seem to be losing a lot of sleep, having a lot of anxiety and stress. I'll list down what transpired during this exposure:-

1) Deep french kissing (im sure my gums we not bleeding, or wounds etc) and im also certain that there was no active bleeding in her mouth. I am thinking i would have definitely been able to taste some blood. Also visually there was no blood in her mouth.

2) I received fellatio (oral sex done on me) but did not notice any visible blood on my penis at the end.

3) i inserted my fingers before the fellatio and after during foreplay (fingering) and my fingernails (which i cut shortly before the encounter- No bleeding or sores on hands or fingers).

Am i at risk from the above 3 acts? I deeply regret what i did and have been driving myself into a deep depression over this.

I do not understand why some websites state that only if there is a "break in the integrity of skin" but no where do they actually properly explain it. From my reading it says if the finger was actively bleeding (exposure 3) then there is a chance.

Please advice. I'm at my wits end here.

God bless

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Many Greetings!
I had a very sensual, tantric massage at an establishment.
I had heavy masturbation performed on me, as well as my bottom fingered by the lady.
I am however, feeling a little regretful and am worried whether i have put myself at risk....there was ALOT of sweat and saliva too, which very likely got into my urethra or anus during the session.
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few days ago, I had fingered a csw till she orgasmed. Immediately after her orgasm,I masturbated. considering the vaginal fluid on my fingers, can I be considered at risk.

thank you so much


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