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do hiv transmit through receiving oral from a hiv girl with bleeding gums?

I want to know to ask if the hiv transmit through receiving oral from a girl of unknown status but has bleeding gums?.If yes what are the chances and please tell me the no.of cases you have come over with ?

Dry Mouth Considered early sign of HIV?

I recently received unprotected oral sex from a woman of unknown status on 2 occasions within the past month. I Recently came down with 2 bad colds, back to back, and have very bad dry mouth. I went online to look up common causes of dry mouth, and saw that HIV was one of the many. Is dry mouth considered an early sign of an HIV infection? I feel like I may be symptom chasing at this point, but I am really concerned. I know receiving oral sex is considered a negligible risk, are there any statistics to back that? There are just so many unknowns. Any help would be appreciated.

so worried

I am a college student from Chicago. I greatly appreciate wonderful job you're doing here.

Here are my three concerns.

1) It happened two years ago. I was masturbating with my friend to contest who fires longer distance (we are not gays, we were stupid). And we suddenly came up with this idea to put on condom and I asked him to pass a condom.

This dude was too kind to open and check the condom before passing it to me.

I suddenly started to worry this 2 years old incident. I think there might be pre-cum on the condom because he touched it while opening/checking/passing the condom.

2) I had a razor cut which was older than 14 hours. Is is possible for HIV to enter through the cut?

3) This is a little embarrassing. I entered my room and my roommate and his girlfriend was having a sex. I am close with her too. They playfully ask to join.

I didn't have a sex with them but kissed her and sucked her breast for a couple of minutes. And she gave me an oral for a minute.

Since my roommates was already having a sex with her, I think I doubled the danger (his/her saliva + his pre-cum in her mouth)

Right after I checked inside mouth, penis, for any cut, and didn't have any except a razor cut on the face the one I decried above.

I am worrying if I was exposed myself to any possible infection in the above three situation? I kind of started to panic.

Thank you so much for the help.

sucking breast and kissing asshole

I sucked breast of a prostitute (she was probably not lactating ) and kissed her ass hole. She showed me her test report she was both hiv and syphillis negative on December 13 and told me she always uses condom. I have sores in my mouth and chapped lips. Can a drop of milk spread hiv? Do I need to test for hiv ?

Risk of infection: fingering vagina, licking and kissing

Hello, I am concerned because a week ago I fingered my partner's vagina for some minutes. Then she licked my fingers that I used to fingered her and inmediatly after we kissed (french kiss).

I would like to know if I am at risk of getting HIV.

No other sexual activity was performed.


Need more tests for conclusive result?

Hi, I was in risk exposure of receiving oral sex 10 weeks ago. On my 78 days, I went for hiv test (Rapid test "point of care") with negative result. Shall I still wait for one more week to meet 84days? Or I could take this negative result as conclusive and definite? Thanks

So had a hook up and little bit of pnp was involved

So regretting the night pretty much was a hook up which included a 3 some and no intercourse but oral sex without a condom both giving and receiving and making out was involved but after I checked my penis and saw red dots freaking out if the guy cut my dick and now I am trying to reach the guys and no call backs or txt am worried because if they were trying to hide something about there status informed me that they were negative but only way to find out is to get tested but just worried

Saliva and Ingrown hairs/pimples risk???

I was recieving the oral sex from a woman who is sex worker.
Had the condom.
But on pubic area in hair had ingrown hair/pimple.
She dribbled saliva that landed in the area.
What is HIV risk? I need test?
Thank so much to answer my worries.

unprotected sex

Hello! I started having sex with a 31 yr old women whom I met on the internet. She claims she had multiple sexual partners before me. Iam a 27 yr old. I met her on 12th October 2013 and we started having sex regularly every next weekend till January 26th. I had protected as well unprotected sex with her. I had unprotected sex on 10th and 16th November 8 to 10 times. Sometimes she was on top of me and sometimes I was. I only had vaginal sex. Not Anal. She use to perform oral sex at me unprotected. I never performed oral on her at anytime. Except deep kissing and sucking her breast. Later on I felt some tingling sensation in my penis and it went away by its own. And again I started feeling the same and was having body pains, slight headache and sore mouth. I went for testing. I went on February 3rd 2014 for testing. I started having sex from October 12th and iam not really sure whether it was unprotected. So iam not counting it in my window period and iam counting it from November 10th where I knew it was unprotected for sure on November 10th and 16th 8 to ten times. So if I take November into wondow period my testing was of 11 weeks 78 days. All the stds came negative as well HIV1/2 AG/AB Combo screen came negative. But I still have sore mouth, slight body pains and sometimes slight headache. I lost 4 pounds. I guess coz I didn't ate properly from the time I was tested and got my results for 5 days as I was very worried and stressed.
Please help me.

HIV Transmission through various cuts on penis/testicles

Hi i just wanted start off by saying thanks for all the work you guys do here, I hope you guys can help me out by providing me with some info.

So about 6 days ago I made an appointment to meet with a sex worker. About 1 hour before I was shaving my pubic hair and the hair around my penis with a trimmer. As a result I cut myself, in different areas. I had small cuts on the testicles, and small cuts on the pubic region. I am not circumcised and I also cut myself on the outside of the penis, the cut was about mid-way on the penis. When I met with the sex-worker she started giving me a blowjob while I was wearing a condom. I was not fully erected because I was nervous. After the blowjob she sat on top of me and we had sex for about 2 minutes. Then I went on top of her, and then finally we did doggy-style, all this while I was still wearing the condom. At one point I noticed that I was bleeding a little. Eventually the nerves got to me so I stopped the session and left. Almost immediately after I became concerned, and got the paranoia that I may have got an infection of some sort. Ever since I have been going crazy, losing sleep, not eating properly, and keep feeling that I am experiencing symptoms of some sort. I keep reading on forums that HIV transmission through vaginal fluid is impossible once the fluid is exposed to air (oxygen).

My concerns are:

1) The cut on my penis that was mid-way, may not have been fully covered by the condom. So what if the exposed cut went inside the vagina, but not deep. Is there anyway HIV could be transmitted if my cut came in contact with her vaginal fluid in the vagina even though I was not deep? How deep do you have to go for the vaginal fluids to still be viral with HIV?

2) Also the sex-worker was very wet around her vagina, and the cuts on my pubic region, testicles, and penis at some point all touched the clitoris/vagina (where it was wet). Is HIV transmission possible this way?

Its only been 6 days and I am going crazy thinking that I have to wait 3 months to get a conclusive result from an HIV test. If you could please answer my questions to the best of your ability it would be really appreciated.

Thank you.


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