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Receiving oral sex- do i have HIV Transmission

Hello Sir, I recently received an oral sex from an unknown guy in a theater. I am afraid that he might have had performed oral sex with others before doing it with me. its been 18 days i just had diarrhea and at the same time i got fever and body pain. I am getting afraid that i might have HIV. Its already 2 and half weeks. Please let me know when is the good time to get it tested. Do i need to wait for 6 weeks or 3 weeks is enough to get it tested.

Is my test conclusive for oral sex exposure?

Hello, I had oral sex exposure (received) in Dec. 19, 2013.
Later, I went for test almost weekly for easing my anxiety.
Latest negative test result ((Rapid test, determine hiv 1/2) I had on exactly 63 days (my 9th week).
Shall I refer it as conclusive result or still go for test until my 84th day?
Much appreacited with your timely reply.

A concern or not? Please advise

I went to a massage parlor. Prior to the massage I used the toilet. Noticed there was some clear fluid with what looked like brown/black dots in it (like gravel?).
I grabbed some tissue to wipe it off. Then went to the loo.
My concern is if I'd accidentally got any of this on my fingers when I adjusted my underwear to go toilet accidentally touched my penis slit. Would this fluid (guessing urine or perhaps a sexual fluid?) be infectious and a cause of concern?
I also received protected oral at the end of the massage.
Do I need to test?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I think I'm going crazy....

Hiv Through Gingivitis and Wounds

Hey guys! You'll are really doing a marvellous job answering each and every question in detail. Thanks also for all the help . my query is that since I have come back from a vacation from Bangkok and I have been very anxious and nervous. The concern that bothers me is that when I was in Bangkok I engaged in deep kissing with a sex worker and I have gingivitis but usually my gums do not bleed but have a pink circular ring around around them. I also have a bruised cheek due to outward protuding wisdom teeth. The sex worker who I kissed had a piercing under her tongue. The deep kiss went on for 15 seconds. I really DO NOT remember tasting blood that's why I am highly concerned that what if there was blood as when the worker kissed me tongue in tongue she released alot of saliva into my mouth and the sex worker also had a piercing under her tongue which raises my concern even more.
After one week after the exposure developed an extremely sore throat however no cold. The throat was so sore that there was yellow mucous with strips of blood in it. It lasted for about 10 days(full recovery). I also developed developed year pain in the process. Can it be ARS? After 3 weeks also developed hazy vision. Please help me I'm very afraid. My queries are as follows:
1)in how much time can an individual ARS? Can they contract it in a week?
2)Assuming the highest possible risk( also had chapped lips)so chapped lips, gingivitis and bruised inner cheeks, can the virus spread through
3) Can the early stages of Hiv affect vision?
4)should I get tested for Hiv?
5)can hiv show in a normal blood test, a full body profile ?
6)I also have a low immunity(fall sick easily) does this pose a higher risk to contract Hiv and can it spread easily to people lower immunity?
Please reply to me Asap highly worried.

Handjob question

Hi I recently received hand job from another male and I think there was semen on his hand. Thing is I went to the doctor a few days after and was diagnosed with herpes and had a small lesion on my penis, it was scabbed over, but I'm worried that his semen may have contacted it when it was open. I read that hiv dies outside of the body so no risk?

fingering with cut with bandaid.

i had a small 48hour old cut. Not bleeding anymore. Properly covered with band-aid.
I fingered a girl of unknown status with that finger. ( covered with band-aid )
Please advice if i am risk from my cut properly covered with band-aid from the fingering episode.
Also, what if i do not cover this cut with band-aid in future will it be risk involving in fingering.

Thanks for your help.

Do I require testing?


Ok I m only really asking as I m finding conflicting information online.

I m trying to determine if I should get tested or not from a single incident.

I received unprotected oral sex from a woman who's status I m unaware of. The blow job lasted 15 min. 3 days before I had an accident shaving my ball sack and had a couple of minor cuts. Not sure if they would have even still been open wounds or not, they didn't appear to be but thought it was worth mentioning as she did briefly lick my sack once.

I m leaning towards no I probably don't need to get tested after some of what I have read but would like the opinion of someone who is more versed in HIV risk assessment.

Thanks so much ;)

recieved blowjob without protection

Hi, thank you guys for being available to help afraid people like us.
I had a protected blowjob and vaginal sex in sept 2013 in thailand. ( 1st exposure). On january 18th 2014, received unprotected blowjob with ejaculation inside the mouth at a massage center. No cuts or sores on my penis and also no cuts visible inside the girl 's mouth. ( 2nd exposure ). I went ahead and did a hiv 1 and 2 with p24 antigen cmia method after 130 days of 1st exposure and 14 days post 2nd exposure. My gp says blowjob has a very very low risk and said to repeat the test post 25 days of 2nd exposure only for my peace of mind. Since the 2nd exposure, i am experiencing an enlarged tonsils and mild throat congestion. I am taking medication for this but not sure why is this happening. Really concerned as these are the only exposures i had in my 31 yrs of life and am not a sexually active person even with my wife. She is 7 months pregnant. Had sex with her twice after my 1st exposure but before the 2nd one. Can you please put some light on my risks and also do i have a reason to worry.?? Appreciate your prompt guidance.



I am having a hard time coming to terms with something. About two weeks ago I received unprotected felatio from a 20 year old female. I am in a relationship long term with another woman and I am now worried if it could be possible that I could contract HIV. I have asked her via FB and she states that I have nothing to worry about. I do have high anxieties anyway and this may be the cause , however two weeks after this is developed a chest cough and bringing up phlem etc, tired and aching etc. I was wondering am I at risk of HIV or am I over reacting?

Oral sex

Hello over the past 10 months I have been on the receiving end of oral sex unprotected and for the past 3 months I have had a on going grunt style cough like I'm clearing my throat and mild disorted vision and not much of a appetite I was wondering if symptoms of hiv can last this long and how much of a risk I out myself at and if receiving oral sex is something doctors recommend getting tested over


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