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Semen making contact with urethra + lip sore


I received a facial from a gentleman (no oral was involved) I was kneeling at the time when he ejaculated and some semen fell to the floor where my penis was. Is there a HIV risk if semen made contact with my urethra?

The second question I have as I have is theoretical. If a cold sore is present and was in the healing process is this considered to be an open wound where HIV infection may occur? I have read a lot of information relating to “open wounds”. In your professional opinion what would be considered to be an open wound on a person face? Is red / inflammed acne a possible hazard etc?

Thank you for your time.

Oral sex, anal fingering and penis rubbing on anus.

I'm a 22 year old guy. Roughly around 2 and a half months back I met this guy and we had kissing and oral sex together. I read a lot of about this activities and they pose negligible risk, but I haven't got a satisfying answer to my question. We both indulged in kissing first and later moved to oral sex where I first received oral sex without a condom and then with a condom. But if didn't give any oral sex. Later he fingered my anus for about two mins. Then while kissing he was rubbing his penis near my anus without a condom and he also tried to insert it but didn't as he didn't have erection and I did let him to as he didn't have condom on it . I also had abrasion near my anus due to tissue.
My question is in the above mentioned activity. 1 - by receiving oral sex is there any HIV transmission? . 2- by him fingering my anus, if he had some cut on his fingers is there any transmission? 3- by him rubbing his penis on my anus and trying to penetrate in anus with any sort of possible precum present on the penis will there be any transmission ? 4 - do I need to get myself tested? If yes, then will my test be conclusive ?

HIV risk?

I need your advice. I have fingered a girl and directly after that I masturbated myself. I think I still had some of her vaginal fluids on my fingers. I read on your site that this is very low risk to get HIV. However, now it is almost two weeks later and I found out that I got Chlamydia from the girl. Would this make it more likely I got a risk for HIV? I found on some sites that you can't get Chlamydia from what I did, so I am confused

HIV worries!

Hello I am a male and had an encounter with another male and i recieved oral sex from him. (his mouth on my penis) We also had condom protected sex with me as the receptive partner and the condoms stayed intact. One condom slipped on withdrawal and was hanging out of my anus and we removed it and used another condom, I s this a risk? I was told on medhelp that I have no risk but I have been having weird symptoms that my doctor believes are stress related. I have been tested for HIV at 3 and 6 weeks with the duo 4th generation test and my results were negative and the clinic said my results were definitive. I also took an oraquick oral swab test at 10 weeks and this was also negative and I will take another oraquick oral swab test at 12 weeks just to be safe. Do you think that there is a risk here and that I might be positive?

At risk for HIV after fingering and masturbation?

I fingered a sex worker wearing a hand glove (not sure about the quality of it). After that I masturbated, while she was also touching my penis. Is there any risk on HIV transmission in this case? After removing the hand glove my hands felt a bit sweaty, so not sure whether any liquid penetrated through the glove

sperm on cut

I gave a guy a handjob and he ejaculated. Once i wiped it off i noticed a cut on the side of my finger. It's like a crack from biting a hang nail. It wasn't bleeding but it was spilt and very pink as thigh it was recent. No scabs and it still hurt. His sperm got all over it. Can I get hiv? They say no unless it's bleeding but I feel as though its kind of deep and fairly open. I'm very scared and can not afford pep :(

HIV test at 36 days

Hi, I have a question, now let me give you a run down on my situation, I had protected vaginal sex with a woman, but had unprotected oral that caused some trauma on the penis. I didn’t notice any blood coming from her mouth or any blood on my penis. I had all the STD tests done and they all came back negative. I went for HIV test at about 36 days after possible exposure it came back negative. Now I don’t know the type of tests they use in New Brunswick Canada, but I know that the window period is 12 weeks, but I was wondering if the negative result I received at 36 days post exposure is a good indicator that my test results will be negative at 12 weeks? And I do plan on going back at 12 weeks to get my conclusive results.

Please Answer Soon (kissing, frottage, mutual maturbation)


Could you please assess my risk? I met a gay man at a bar. We ended up engaging in frottage. I was on the bottom and I was wearing underwear. He was naked on top and grinding on top of me. I never took my underwear off during this rubbing session but it lasted a while. There was no penetration. My underwear were dry afterwards. Is there any chance that any secretions could have penetrated my underwear? Did this put me at risk? We then kissed a few times ( no blood present, he opened his mouth to show me. We touched each other's penises. He then masturbated me and during ejaculation may have briefly put my penis in his mouth. It wasn't a blow job but my penis may have entered his mouth. He was still touching himself so i don't know if there was any precum on his hands. He then masturbated himself but I didn't touch his ejaculate. So I guess this boils down to kissing, frottage, mutual masturbation and my penis maybe in his mouth briefly. I am so scared I put myself at risk. He assured me he is HIV negative but I only have his word. Thank you for your help

HIV basics

Sir I just want to know a few things about hiv as I could not clarify myself for few things
Can Hiv transfer to Penis (Clothed) from naked anus (anal canal) if not then why as there are pores in clothes big enough
Can hiv transfer from anus by rubbbing if penis is not in Rectum I mean not passed through spincter What I learnt is no as perhaps mucus is produced in rectum not in anus ...................
Plz ans to clarify me

Anal fingering in thailand


Yesterday, I went to a massage parlour in thailand. I received anal fingering from a CSW for about 5 min. I have lots of hemmoroides and I noticed some blood on the toilet paper the same night. I'm worried because I didn't check the finger of the masseuse and I don't if her finger was bleeding. What do you think? Should I get test? I'm extremely anxious :(


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