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Hey Aids Vancouver,
I really hope you do reply to my post and help ease my mind.

I sucked on the nipples of an woman with an unknown status for about 10 min and had protected oral sex, I'm not sure if the woman was lactating or had cuts near her nipples.
Although your Helpline suggest I'm HIV negative, I've OCD about these things and had myself tested.
I had two Rapid HIV test done & one 4th generation ELFA test done in an Hospital in India with good amenities ( just trying to establish a basis for an question that i've had these tests in an reputed hospital with cancer research centre and and other facilities you'd find in an hospital out west )

P.S The tests have been done post 7 months of my last possible exposure.

My questions are
1. Based on my exposure can I contract HIV assuming the woman was positive & lactating ?
2. Is seven months enough time for any human with any disease including immunodeficiency and cancer among others to produce anti bodies to be detected when testing ?
3. Can HIV tests in third world countries such as India be as accurate as the ones in US & Canada ? what are the chances that an lab technician has screwed up my tests ?
4. Do i need further testing in India ? or should I have myself tested in the US or Canada ?

I know my questions seem tacky and you must have answered them an thousand times but an reply from you would mean the world to me as I'm studying and worrying about HIV affects my studies.

Thanking You,

Oral Sex and worried about STD/HIV Please help me I am out of control

On Dec 26 I went to a girl, and she did hand job while she was doing suddenly licking my penis urethra.I realized and said dont( so this is all about 2seconds) and also she had sucked my penis balls around 1 to 2 minutes. I guess i have minor cut on my balls(a small dot of skin out) but there is no blood.

If she has HIV Positive, did i get HIV when she touched her tongue on head of my penis (if her saliva enters into my penis urethra) I am sure I dont have any cuts / sores / blood on my penis.

If I have cuts / sores / blood on my penis balls and she does't have any cuts/sores/blood on her mouth is it possible to get HIV?

If she have cuts /sores / blood and i dont have any cuts / sores / blood is it possible to get HIV?

If both of us has cuts / sores / blood on her mouth and also on my penis balls, is it possible to get HIV?

Please help me I am really worrying and not even doing my job properly .. I am really out of control.


Please help me Oral sex with minor cuts transmts HIV and ELISA Test in Malaysia

Hi Few days back I went to a girl, and she did hand job but no sex. While she was doing handjob suddenly she tooked my penis on her mouth n licked for 2 secs and also she was sucking my penis balls around 1 to 2 minutes. After two days I found small very minor wound on my penis balls. Now I am worrying like anything without sleep and even not doing my job properly with this tention.

If she has HIV Positive, did i get HIV when she licked on head of my penis (if her saliva enters into my penis utthera) I am sure I dont have any cuts / sores / blood on my penis.

If I have cuts / sores / blood on my penis balls and she does't have any cuts/sores/blood on her mouth is it possible to get HIV?

If she have cuts /sores / blood and i dont have any cuts / sores / blood is it possible to get HIV?

If she have cuts/sores/blood and my penis balls also having minor cuts/blood/sores will expose to HIV?

I heard to get HIV there must be direct contact for this what is the time period for direct contact? is it one second enough to transfer?

And also please let me know where and when I can do ELISA testing in Malaysia?

Please help me I am really worrying .

Risk of HIV transmission

Hello Friends,

I had undertaken following four sexual activities, please let know whether I need to worry further and live peacefully a committed new life:

In 1st week of April 2013, I had received unprotected oral sex for 3-4 minutes at a massage parlour possibly from a commercial sex worker. She cleaned up my penis with water and tissue paper.

In 2nd week of May 2013, I had onetime protected vaginal sex with a commercial sex worker for 5-6 minutes. After that I had washed by penis properly with water.

On 10th November 2013, I have received hand-job from one commercial sex worker. I did suck/rub her nipples for 10-15 minutes. No vaginal/anal sex (but may have received unprotected oral sex).

On 5th December 2013, I had again received hand-job from a commercial sex worker but catch here is that she cleaned up my Penis with water and some used towels, may have been used by previous customers.

In all the above cases I am not sure of HIV status of service providers/their earlier customers.

I had no symptoms of HIV infection. Due to mental agony, I got myself tested on 23rd December 2013 for HIV 1/2 through ELISA method, which came out as non-reactive/negative.

Please guide if I need to go for further testing or I can forget above incidents and live a committed life from the new year onwards with single partner whose HIV status is negative and known to me. Your proper guidance would be of great help.

Worried about cut on the arm

Hi , i visited pattaya last week. I got covered blowjob from 2 massage girls seperately and engaged in soapy massage each time where we both were full nude and both of the girls did handjobs without condom.

I also got handjob from a ladyboy and she spitted on my cock too.

The problem is , after 4 days when i reached back ... i noticed a cut across my right arm ... more like a single scratch . I am really worried if it was intentional and that ladyboy gave it to me.
Although at that point of time... i do not remember any pain or did not see any needle ... is there any chance i may be infected in any of the above scenario.

Hiv testing

I received a oral sex without condom from a women who is suspected as hiv. I undergone a std test after 10 weeks and the results were Hiv index <1.0 and non reactive. Could you please suggest me the risk of hiv in future?

45 day test

Hello, so about 2 months ago I had engaged in some sexual activity. He had fingered me and performed oral sex on me (I'm female). I don't believe any sex had followed after this event. I had an antibody only test done at 32 days (negative), and then I had another one done at 45 days (negative). Basically I was just wondering what are the chances of a 6 week negative test changing at 12 weeks? Whether that be a high risk one or not. Thanks

Worried sick..risk of HIV transmission

Hi, It was a one time encounter where with a guy of unknown status i met at a club. I was a virgin at the time of the encounter and he tried to penetrate 3 or 4 times but it was difficult since i was too tight for him. There was some fingering and oral sex involved. I don't recall if there was any pre-cum or ejaculation present at the time of sex. If it was present, or not present, what are the chances of HIV transmission in such case from a male to female?

please help

I am a 24 year old male, and had protected oral sex from a sex worker in india, I also fingered her vagina twice but not deep, then I kissed her and did foreplay, am i under any risk. Is it possible for transmission this way, I didnt have any visible cuts in my finger.

so much worried..need help.

hello i received unprotected oral sex on 10th july 2013 from a guy and he is having blood in his gum as i think,after that i had flu with dehydration and i m hospitalised on 19th august..7 to 8 bottle of water i received...however this is fact that ..i m fooding so so so much outside... in home too..lots of milk.curds ..and fried things outside..as i was doing gym from june 2013..i m not so lin and thin..but m using herbal capsule "nav paurush" for 2 and half month just to gain more weight and build my body..and i gain 8 kg of weight after gaining i m 73 kg.. in these 2 and half month''but after flu on august ..after 1 week i lost my weight approx 6 kg...and then after 10 or 15 days i again join gym and start taking "nav parush" herbal ca[psule for regain my weight...but i continue it for only one month and i regain somewhat.as it increases my hungur...but after this in november my stomach goes on upset..i got constipation..and it continues for starting of december..this 1 month period of time..i uses dupahlac ,tripahala churan..nothing works..as dr, say duphalac is good one..now this is the time my mind freaks..when heard that i may had exposed to hiv..i go through all of questions and answers according to my need..then i tried to contact that my frnd..and ask him directly..but he denied..even he is ready to see his report..then i ask why u take this report..r u on risk anywhere..then he replied that he was going for his stone operation in SMS hospital jaipur and dr.take test of many kind some ultrasounds too...including hiv test..and he sent me his report taken on 21 sept 2013 and that is negative.but i cant gonna beleive him..though he sent his report..as i came to know he was engaged in sexual activities..and thinking may be he showed me false report..one important thing i never had a sex in my life..this first oral sex with him..after that i want test myself for hiv..but m so scared ..praying god..thinking about my life..i m 23 years old guy...i never had a strong illness in my past life,,,then i fully decided to being tested..and it was 9th december 2013 approx points to 5 months..i tested negative for "HIV 1 and HIV 2 "in INDIA "varanasi" city in a pathalogy lab and result i had on d next day..i found on envelope of my result there is written about there lab"authorised by BHABHA AUTOMIC RESEARCH CENTRE"and also all kind of test used there..and there i found "ELISA walk away ELISA SYSTEM DAS(ITALY)....then i think this is elisa test ..is this ELISA ......as i heard the coclusive result is at 3 months as it also written in my report.. but in some cases it takes 6 month...but i had no cancer treatment..nor organ transplant..nor PEP..only that "navparush"capsule which is herbal..as i mentioned above with time preiod,,when i was tested for that time stomach somewhile upset ..i had ultrasound of my stomach and all fine..but now from 15th december..my constipation somewhile fine..but i m so scared that m i not produce antibodies..is i produce antibodies now after test..pls pls help me..suggest me..m so much worried..as i found u all r d best helpliner..

my questions are:-

am i fall on 6 month category or my 5 month test is conclussive?

when my medicine for consticipation not working well then it may due to my body did nt produce antibodies..or its other issue..?

is my test in INDIA "varanasi"..is accurate?

I m from india...
pls pls answer it fast
sorry for my weak english..but pls answer my questions..


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