Anonymous
Hello I am a transgender who has not been sexually active. Well I met someone one craigslist late at night and acted a little dumb. Now I am just wanting reassurance if I should be worried or not. I don't know the man just met him once he was nice. We met in my car and talked for awhile and I ended up giving him a hand job, while I was doing that to him he played with my anus a little fingered it some but really didn't really stick it in very much if he did he stuck it in pretty shallow but played with it enough to that it hurt for a few days. Before he was able to cum I got scared and stopped but I did have a lot of precum on my hands. He was cool with me stopping and he left and that was all. I also do test my sugar with my hands but that was more than 12 hours before. Should I be worried about any std especially HIV giving him that hand jog or him fingering my anus a little? We did not kiss on the mouths at all or do anything else. No sex was involved in anyway just a handjob and my anus being fingered a little. Please help this transgender calm down.
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Anonymous
Hi there and thank you for reaching out to AIDS Vancouver with your questions! We're happy to help.

I understand that new situations like this can be stressful, but I'm happy to help alleviate your worries.

1) giving or receiving a handjob is considered non-penetrative masturbation and is therefore No Risk. There's no opportunity for direct exchange of bodily fluids here.

2) Fingering is considered a Negligible Risk. What this means is that, although there may technically be opportunity for an associated risk, there has never been a confirmed case of transmission in this way. In other words, it's highly unlikely for HIV to be transmitted in this manner. So there's no need to worry!

I've attached the transmission equation for reference. You need all three components for transmission of HIV to even be possible!

HIV TRANSMISSION EQUATION


BODY FLUID
+
ACTIVITY
+
DIRECT ACCESS TO BLOODSTREAM
---------- -------- ----------------------------
• blood (including menstrual) • unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse • vagina
• semen • sharing needles • anus
• pre-cum • mother to child (in specific cases) • urethra in the penis
• rectal secretions • open cuts and sores (in theory)
• vaginal fluids • other mucosal membranes
• breast milk • points of needle injection
I hope this helped!
Sincerely,
Christina

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