On 31st Jan I met with a lady and unaware aware of the HIV status of her. That day all that happened as below

1. No penetration or intercourse to her vagina by me.
2. I fingered her vagina and my fingers got wet with her vaginal fluid. And without washing my hand I did musterbate.
3. She licked my penis but it was not a blowjob. Without condom.
4. We both sucked each others nipples.

Is there any chance of me getting HIV if she was infected?

Is there any chance of getting infection if she licks on newly healed wounded portion but without blood?

Is there any chance of getting infection if vaginal fluid comes in contact with newly healed wounded portion but without blood?

Further, on 7th feb,
1. I got my right ear swelling with pain inside the ear. Left ear is normal.
2. None of the lymph nodes are found swelling.
3. Gradually the swelling is gone and now the earlobe got little bit swelling not noticeable easily.

4. On 13th Feb night I feel little swell or numbness in my lower lip.After two days its reducing and only visible if one looks very closely.

5. On 14th Feb I feel little swell or numbness in my upper lip. Its only visible if one looks very closely.

Does these indicate HIV infection?

I have done the HIV Test today i.e. 15th Day (SERUM HIV(I & II)AG/AB( Combo)
Method : Chemiluminescent Immunoassay) and the result is non reactive. I had data of my past HIV test done as a part of my routine test in 2016. It was the same method. At that time the result was 0.09 S/CO. Now it is 0.24 S/CO. It is increasing.
Does it mean that I am infected and antibodies are growing gradually?
Do I need another test for Conclusion or this can be treated as Conclusive Test?

Hello and thank you for contacting the helpline.

We understand that you would like to know your risk of acquiring HIV after engaging in mutual masturbation, fingering, and receiving oral sex from a partner of unknown status. Receiving oral sex and fingering are both assessed as a Negligible Risk for HIV transmission. This means that in theory transmission is possible because there could be an exchange of body fluids, however, there has never been a documented case of someone acquiring HIV in this way.

You don't mention what type of wound you are referring to, but if it was healed and not related to an STI (hepes, syphillis), then it would not increase your risk. HIV is not transmitted through Saliva.

Swelling of the earlobes and lips are not known to be symptoms of early HIV infection.

The 4th Generation ag/ab combo test you had today has a sensitivity of about 99.9%. Fourth-generation HIV tests can detect HIV infection in 50% of people by 18 days after infection; 95% of people by 34 days after infection; and 99% of people by one and a half months after infection. (1) Testing at 15 days puts you within the window period. If you are still concerned about acquiring HIV from this encounter despite the negligible risk, it would be best to test after six weeks post-encounter.

It is not possible that you were infected in 2016 and have been slowly developing antibodies since then, but are still testing as non reactive.

Recommendation: There are no evidence or no documented cases of transmission refer to Physician for more personalized answers.

AIDS Vancouver Helpline Volunteer, Dyson
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